He is very jellouse and he fusses that I wear nice tight fitting close I have three children and I think that I still have a nice body well other have said it to How can I get him to quit being so jellouse and let me feel beautiful?
2006-11-12 23:52:50 · 11 answers · asked by crazy blonde & beautiful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband hates it when I wear sexy revealing clothes.
Out of respect for him, I dont do it.
If your married, there is no reason to show off yourself to other men, and thats what he's jealous about.
When in doubt about what to wear, ask him if he thinks your outfit is inappropriate. He will respect you , and you will respect yourself more.
I understand ...Sometimes you need to feel beautiful, but to keep the peace, respect your husbands wishes.
Thats what a "relationship" is all about.
Good Luck!
2006-11-13 00:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by multipure417278 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry to say this but i think that you have a self esteem issue. You are linking your beauty with the clothes that you wear. Beauty comes from within love. You must not make your clothes make you a woman you. You are already beautiful hon. If you have a great body after having three kids that is great but you have to remember that you are still a mom and a wife.
Your husband probably feels the same way to. You do not have to wear long dresses with long sleeves and turtle necks but your clothes be loose fighting and you will still sexy.
I have saying. It is not mine personally but i say it a lot, A WOMAN MUST WEAR CLOTHES AND NOT ALLOW THE CLOTHES TO WEAR HER.
There are many other ways to make yourself look beautiful.
Close fitting jeans are okay and so are tops. You want to show a little cleavage that is okay to.
Dresses right above the knee, halter backs are fine. Just don't wear clothing and leave nothing for the imagination.
2006-11-13 08:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to think of his feeling. Would you like it if other women were committing about him. Try to dress with a little less tight clothing and see if he want change and you'll want be arguing all the time.
2006-11-13 08:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by buddy95 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants u to dress more conservatively when out in public cuz u r married and have children.
2006-11-13 10:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all want to be sexy & that is cool . Tight clothes is not always sexy .I always say don't put yourself in a postion to get attention from others while your married but you can still be sexy to a point.I think my point is to be you & be comfortable with your body just don't get in trouble with it.
2006-11-13 08:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes insecure just keep wearing what you want and eventually he will get over it. i know my husband was the same way and now he doesn't like to see me in big clothes.
2006-11-13 08:04:23 · answer #6 · answered by charo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk not argue with him see if you cant come up with a happy medium. It is not worth falling out over clothes.
2006-11-13 07:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to wear a bit loose.
heavens won't fall
afterall he is ur hubby.
as u want he also will have some idea about ur likings.
2006-11-13 07:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY NOT WEARING TIGHT FITTING CLOTHES
THAN SEE WHAT HAPPENS.
IF YOU LOVE EACH OTHER YOU WILL
2006-11-13 08:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if im your husband , ill burn all your dress and let u walk in the street , nude
2006-11-13 08:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋