2006-11-12 22:06:48 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes
2006-11-12 23:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-11 15:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time threesomes are safe is if all three don't know each other. Think about it. Intercourse is a very highly emotional act. It can either boost a relationship or ruin it. If one starts to develop feelings, they will either eventually act on it or hold it inside until it hurts. Then it turns into resentment. In either case, the seed has been planted. Something is bound to grow.
2016-03-19 07:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO having a threesome will not save your marriage in can make things way more difficult try marriage councillling instead
2006-11-12 22:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by miss unsure 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a mate who has an open marriage. The pair of them are swingers and they are happier than most of my friends with a very stable relationship. But it is not something you should do to try save a marriage, maybe counselling or something would be a better option. If your partner doesn't want to stay together unless you bring someone else into your bedroom, you should really asses if this person loves you and is giving you the respect you deserve.
2006-11-12 22:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by Maverick off Top Gun 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what type of marriage do you have. y do you think that having a threesome once will keep you together forever? you have major problems and a threesome wont fix it
2006-11-12 22:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
believe me it is not a threesome that will keep your marriage together,but if you are comfortable with the idea,why not go for it,because if you do it just to fix your marriage,you will fell very upset,and that can really ruin your marriage.
2006-11-12 22:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by realistic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's a disaster waiting to happen
It's great as a fantasy but in reality it takes a strong relationship to pull it off (So to speak) don't do it on a whim and try other things first beforer doing that.
keep love as 1-1
Good Luck
2006-11-12 22:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by JEFF K 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the only threesome that will save your marriage will be you, your partner and a marriage councillor.
2006-11-12 22:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by The Wandering Blade 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No, please dont feel you have to. A marriage is when two people join in unison, not with 3rd parties habging around. If you go ahead with this it can cause so many other complications, and can possibly lead to a marriage breakdown itself. Thinik about this seriously before you decide. Can you live with the consequences?
2006-11-12 22:11:23 · answer #10 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋