Marriage & Divorce - 9 November 2006

I mean this friend i know of is a good family man, who loved his wife and 1 yr old son so much so that he even make sure if he died, they will live comfortabably.

I told him it is not right to look at sexy women with those remark, he said i am one of a kind of man who doesn't. Should i give respect to him as a loving father and husband. or should i pick up my guts and fire him?

2006-11-09 15:55:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-09 15:53:39 · 14 answers · asked by country gal 1

2006-11-09 15:50:23 · 21 answers · asked by jaime v 1

How do I tell my husband that I really like everyone in his family...except his mom ( she's just a piece of crap)and his sister? i know it'll hurt him, but i feel like i don't need to be around them anymore! the only problem...we have a child who should see his cousin( his sisters' kid ) how do i avoid her? they are both a pain in my a**... i just found out that my friends and family were taking dibs on who was gonna knock her (the sister) out first during the get togethers of my wedding(she was one of my bridesmaids ) i know it's not good to have animosity in families.... but it has gotten to the point of no return.... please help, thanx!

2006-11-09 15:47:31 · 4 answers · asked by magdalina 3

I can't believe he's going after child custody. The guy doesn't even have custody of the children he had before he was with Britney. Probably never wanted it. Child support from her is probably what he's thinking of?

2006-11-09 15:38:10 · 16 answers · asked by Leaving on a jetplane 3

2006-11-09 15:35:25 · 11 answers · asked by rammonia321 1

For example, my mother died with land to be divided with 4 of her children. Does the brothers wife get part of his inheritance if they divorce?

2006-11-09 15:34:22 · 6 answers · asked by wantaknow 1

My ex still comes over calls and carries on with me like we were supposedly still a couple. But he hides his vehicle in my garage and wont let me in to even see his new apartment. What is he hiding ? Stuff from the divorce of mine he claimed was stolen? Women? Both???

2006-11-09 15:32:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I forgave her. Now she is e-mailing and talking on the phone to a recently divorced man. I have positve proof I don't want to (can't) tell her about. I confronted her and she denies it. I asked her to come clean or move out, but changed my mind not to ruin the image our three kids (21,20,16) have of thier mother. After the threat, the mental affair she is having continues. 1 year before the affair I senced something wasn't right, I took a hard look at myself. I made sure I was doing all the things for her a spouse needs after 32 years of marrige. Alot of help that did! She seems to hooked on the enfacuation of the new relationships. She says she loves me more than anything. Anybody been here? What now?

2006-11-09 15:30:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

please this should be regular ppl, I'm not interested in movie stars, Hollywood, etc.

2006-11-09 15:27:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

And it really is a 'late' age - although I'm not dead. There has always been love - more demonstrated by acts than in words. Now I'm realizing that it's been about the passion which isn't a bad thing but now I feel I need some romance. How do you tell a man that you need the romance? And yes, I'm romantic but when displayed it's not received or ridiculed or ignored.

2006-11-09 15:26:47 · 7 answers · asked by Goodmomma1 3

2006-11-09 15:24:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

No comment.

2006-11-09 15:22:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out tonight why my husband has been so stressed lately. It turns out that he was having a relationship with another woman who lives in town. It turns out that he got her pregnant and now she wants to break up and eventually sue for child support. I don't think this is fair because I love babies and I would be glad to take care of the child, plus my husband offered to pay her rent for her apartment if she wouldn't "leave him". He even offered for her to come stay in one of our guest bedrooms, but she said she didn't want to be in an adulterous relationship. That didn't make any sense to me because I thought adultery was only when a married woman slept with another man but not if a married man slept with an unmarried woman which she is. I was always taught that was polygamy and it was okay. Why do some women have to be so cruel sometimes? It sounds like she just wants my husband's money to spend for whatever she wants and that is really sad.

2006-11-09 15:19:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you don't want someone finding out? Don't all divorces usually end up in some newspaper section somewhere anyways? But, is it possible to keep it hidden just within your family and close circle of friends?

2006-11-09 15:17:20 · 11 answers · asked by funnyface 2

it has to be against it

2006-11-09 15:11:53 · 13 answers · asked by Yeraldy 1

I have been married for 2 years and we have an 11 month old son. While I don't feel my marriage is bad, the relationship has definitely changed. He used to be very sweet, respectful and complimentary and we used to go out and have fun. Now, he never compliments me on anything, but he's quick to roll his eyes or shake his head when I do something wrong. He's very moody also. Sometimes he's happy and "normal" and then sometimes he's just grumpy and snippy and the tone in his voice is very unfriendly but when I ask what's wrong he snaps at me. I can count on one hand the number of times we've gone out together in the past year. And then we only stayed out for an hour and he barely spoke to me, but when he goes out with his friend he stays out for hours and has a good time. He doesn't even want to go do anything with me and our son. He says he's tired, or it's too late to do anything (at 3 in the afternoon) or that sunday is his only day off. I love him and he's a good daddy

2006-11-09 15:10:56 · 22 answers · asked by luvbabysky 3

Okay my ex broke up with me a month ago because she said that she needed time to figure out her own life and figure out what makes her happy. See she is currently in therapy due to her father passing away 4 months ago and her low self esteem. She said that she hoped we could really still be friends and talk. She said she was sorry for everything and that the timing of us sucked because of her and she thought we had really good potential. She really hoped that we could be friends and talk, because thats all she could handle. So I have not seen her in a month and have not heard from her since she dumped me in an email. I have been trying to keep my distance and give her time. I still care about her, but not like I used to. I hope she is okay, but do not have the desire to talk to her everyday. So she emailed me today, asked how I was doing and said she hoped I was well. How long should I wait to reply? I don't want to be rude, appear desperate, or have her think I dont care?

2006-11-09 15:00:25 · 8 answers · asked by cds1666 1

My husband of 21 years had an affair with a woman he met through work, fell in-love (lust) with, and she is now pregnant. My husband and I have been living separate for 8 months, ever since he found out this lover/girlfriend was pregnant. She is due next month. She has my husband convinced that this is a "miracle baby" because she has a split uterus and other female organ problems. He still calls and visits me and our two children on a daily basis. He often sleeps home during the week and we make love. I still love him and I know he loves me, but he is torn between me and our kids and this "other woman". He claims he wants to come home to us (his family) but not until their baby is born and his sees that she and the newborn are doing alright. He says his feelings are on hold and he is very confused. He feels a great responsibilty to this woman and their baby. I believe my husband is trying to be sincere and honest. Should I hang in there even though his love-child is on the way?

2006-11-09 14:58:57 · 23 answers · asked by mercedes5girl 1

2006-11-09 14:58:14 · 1 answers · asked by Linda D 1

I havent loved him for a few years now and have loved another for the last 11 and now hes back in my life but dont believe in cheating on my husband

2006-11-09 14:58:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an military husband and he was deployed to arizona for two months. when he got home i found a name and address on a sheet of paper girls hand writing. he said that it was a buddy of his address. should i have believed him?

2006-11-09 14:51:22 · 18 answers · asked by thumperprice26 1

How long did it take you to get into a house and get settled?

2006-11-09 14:44:42 · 20 answers · asked by Direktor 5

2006-11-09 14:38:04 · 19 answers · asked by rominasarubbi 1

2006-11-09 14:33:09 · 26 answers · asked by mssgtmidnight 1

So I was looking at a magazine today. All the successful men in it have "and his wife ___ and his children ___ and ___." No man seems able to "make it big" without finding a wife first. Even Jon Stewart and Stephen Colbert have wives (and they look like clones of each other). Yet, if you look at successful women, it seems like we have to stay alone in order to make it. This makes me think maybe men sponge and siphon energy off the wives in order to become successful. Successful women would it seems be dragged down by a man in their lives. Men just seem to get boosts from having us in theirs. So what do YOU think? Why can't men get ahead in life without a woman to feed off of? Is it better for women to be alone to make it? I'm not being sarcastic or manhating. I just want to know why men have got to have us and why this is.

2006-11-09 14:24:57 · 24 answers · asked by Heather M 2

I hate when my ex takes my kids for his visitations, I end up sitting at home waiting for them to come home again! I have no new partner in my life, and my friends are all married - I feel like a bit of a charity case if I go visit them all the time! I have very little money, so can't afford to go spoil myself with hair treatments or shopping etc, but hate it that I count down the time the kids are away from me. I have not been a single mum for all that long, maybe it gets easier with time?

2006-11-09 14:24:51 · 9 answers · asked by mudgeemum 2

wife and I have 2 children.Baby and 5 yr old.I love them dearly but walked out 2 days ago after wife told me some unwelcome truths but in a very provocative and insulting way.I am probably suffering deppression. Have had dozens of professional setbacks and deaths in my adult life.Not to mention my Childhood.However I do realise I am far luckier than many.. Have only talked to a proffesional once on the phone and he believes I need a course of cognitive treatment whatever that is. I have never hit my (even though she seems to be provoking me to do so)wife but have thrown objects such as picture frames onto the floor etc. The night I left I was extremily negative. My wife does not want to accompany me to Italy where I own land and could build on it.She says she will stay here and work and she doesnt need me. She hasnt apologised to me or tried to contact me since I left.. I love the kids.What can I do??

2006-11-09 14:22:10 · 20 answers · asked by blackjack 1

But they DO everything they are "preaching" is not good???

2006-11-09 14:17:49 · 15 answers · asked by Angel2 2

I have seperated from my husband, made myself more available, emotionaly and otherwise, and he is just progressively getting more and more nasty, while at the same time saying that he loves me and needs me. Its been almost four years, I am at my wits end I do not know what to think or do

2006-11-09 14:16:09 · 10 answers · asked by redseagoddess 3