2006-11-09 14:33:09 · 26 answers · asked by mssgtmidnight 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some men think with their "small head". Once they realize that they might loose their family, they backtrack. These men are shallow thinkers in relationships. They look for adventure and exitement, but dont think where it will lead to. Once this affair heads to something "painful", they will leave the relationship in a hurry.....
2006-11-09 15:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I FINALLY UNDERSTOOD WHY about 20 min ago. People want to feel attractive and desirable. They want to feel like a stud. When my wife would rather scour me looking for a blackhead then touch me lovingly, or treat my dick like it's filthy no matter what, or complain that I can't keep it hard enough long enough for her (apparently 5-8 times a week for 40-60 min each ain't good enough) or that she gets no pleasure out of my pleasure or that I get too sweaty during sex or anything else. I told her how much it hurt and she says she has no idea what I am talking about.
We still love each other but she does absolutely nothing to make me feel like a man anymore. I have never cheated on her but I am at my breaking point.
2006-11-09 15:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men do not want to lose their family, just like when wives cheat they do not want to lose everything in their family.
Just because a man or woman cheats, do not mean they are going to leave their spouse.
Some people like myself had to check out the grass on the other side of the fence. If a person has never been there, then they do not know how to answer this.
It may not be right for either spouse to cheat, but it happens.
2006-11-09 14:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The first reason is because they can....Usually after it is all over but the crying, they will tell you it is not anything you did at all it is in them...But most of the men are not going anywhere til the woman says she has had enough..Then they cry like babies...A man that cheats cannot handle his woman doing the same thing...And usually after the woman goes she doesn't want to come back. It seems like it is so easy anymore to just buck and run at the first sign of problems...That is why divorce courts are full........Good luck
2006-11-09 15:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked this man this very same quesion once and he said "He just did." "That sex with his wife was fine."
So he had no problem in the bedroom area he just wanted to do other women. Men are just like that. Sex is on their mind all the time. They can't get it off. And when a pretty lil lady walks by, (you see it all the time) they have to turn their head and watch her walk away. It's us women who need to "wise" up and not lay down with the dogs. But we do it too. It's just human nature. We all have it in us! Some can resist better, Some can't.
2006-11-09 15:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by dollface30720 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so pathetic reading the men's responses to this question which happens to be a good one. My guess is they can't give you a real answer as most of them are just a bunch of excuses. And what is this thing about "trying to find out if the grass is greener on the other side" business? Seems to me that when you give your vows to forsake all others there's no need to find out if the grass is indeed greener. Good luck to getting a good answer from men.
Oh and by the way, it doesn't just happen as some men claim it does. That's just another excuse.
2006-11-09 14:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by Leila G 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Some woman do too, it's cause they are not happy with themselves, so they try and find a solution, but they never will, cause they are going against God's comandments, therefore they open up the gates of hell, and live in sin, and only God can fix a lost soul, they have to repent and believe that Jesus died for their sins, and ask Him for forgiveness and inivite Him into their hearts, then they will be right with God and change their ways and have eternal life .......take care
2006-11-09 15:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is for the change of pace. A little different spice in the dish. It has nothing to do with not loving your wife or wanting to leave. I also beleive that the men should tell the lady upfront that he is not going to leave his wife for her.
2006-11-09 14:55:54 · answer #8 · answered by konala 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here try this one on for size
a bunch of these answers so far are saying that you wont get a good answer
so try this one
women say they give it to their husbands all the time when they actually dont
the male is at his prime or peak performance and wanting sex 24-7 the female however does not and say that we are oversexed pigs that is all we think about blah blah blah
well on the other hand when women reach there peak yhe male is shutting down because the women has won her decisive way of turning him off
so she is now a sex crazed nymph wanting sex 24-7
and looking for the man that will give it to her
thus the inevitable revolving ? why do men cheat
and women do you cheat?????
2006-11-09 17:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by blue ox 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some men like the adventure of doing something that they know they shouldn't, some men may be seeking something that they don't get from their partner/wife.. and some just can't resist temptation. Then you also get the pig-types that don't care how they treat the women that love them, and think that they can do what they want, whenever that want, reguardless. It all depends on the man.
2006-11-09 14:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋