I havent loved him for a few years now and have loved another for the last 11 and now hes back in my life but dont believe in cheating on my husband
2006-11-09 14:58:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have quite a dilemma there and that actually happened to me .I was married and didn't love him anymore and didn't have the balls to tell him and looking back i wish i did . I could have saved us all alot of misery. If i could do it over I would've saved up some money and just moved out and left him. That's what you should do .Plan your next move financially and emotionally it will be easier for both of you .
2006-11-09 15:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place you did not loved your husband period. because when you love someone love does not end when you blow a candle. You should at least have the decency to admit to your husband that you never loved him and that you want a divorce as soon as possible. Do not hurt him more than he is going to be if you tell him that the man you had always loved is back in your life again. Just remember that what you did to him might backfire on you and in the future you might be feeling the same way your husband will be when you tell him the truth.
2006-11-09 23:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him now before it's too late. If this is something you really want to do then you'll feel better once it's done. Just make sure that it's just the flame has died down between you and your husband so you "think" you lost interest.
2006-11-09 23:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please for every ones sake , be honest and file for a divorce, it's gonna hurt but hurts go away with time and as long as you keep it honest you will come out better in the long run, don't do like my spouse did me and lead me on for a year thinking things were gonna work out and then spring on me while I'm out of town working that she doesn't want a relationship with me but the truth was she had already moved him in and me out.I could have handled divorce papers first a whole lot easier than this way.
2006-11-10 01:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit him down and tell him about your feelings. Say that you do not love him anymore and you want a divorce. Don`t go on just pretending to love him when you don`t. It may be hard but it is something you have to do.
2006-11-09 23:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could it be that you stop loving the guy you said i do to cuz of the eyes on the other prize?
break away from this other guy until you finish what you started with your husband and have a clear mind to make a clear decision instead of a insane decision based on unrealistic emotions.
2006-11-09 23:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's good that you're not cheating on your husband, but still this is going to hurt him just the same. be kind, don't make it harder on him than it already will be. poor guy...ouch! but you will come to resent him if you don't love him. it's best to get out now. it will be easier to move on with your lives. hope all goes well.
2006-11-09 23:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by aj607 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How? Straight in his face. At this point of the game you have given up, so just get the divorce going and make it as painless as possible for the 2 of you and ....go on with life....Life is too short.....
2006-11-09 23:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat, divorce then get on with your life. your husband will be hurt, but not hutrt as much as staying in a loveless marriage.
2006-11-10 00:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by Johnboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send Him this or like Brit and send a tex meg.
2006-11-09 23:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by canivieu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋