i've heard that most of the cheating happens at work, since that's were you spend most of your day. has this happend to you or have you done it. also if your spouse was doing would you rather not know.
2006-11-09 00:06:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No I personally have never cheated but I agree that most encounters happen at the work place because you have the most interaction with people from the opposite sex, people that you see everyday.
If my spouse was cheating, not only do I want to know. I have the right to know as his wife. I don't like being played for a fool by someone whom I supposedly trusted.
2006-11-09 00:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by Aurora 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The grounds for cheating is most likely to be set up at work but not actually take place at work. I would want to know. Most men will cheat but have no plans on ending their marriage. The other woman is the potential problem most of the time when she buys in to the lies the man is telling her. Men create problems that don't exist at home, just for the chance of getting a chance with another woman.
2006-11-09 00:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that most of them do meet at work and sometimes even occur at work but some meet out side of work and they go to a hotel or what ever!!!!! I have had a hubby cheat on me twice with two different women and I caught him by spying and he did not know I caught him and he denied it but the one girl admitted it I divorced him and to this very day he still says he did not do it but the girl had told me details so I knew he was lying he was always a liar i use to hear him make up whoppers in front of me telling these big stories to all his friends and he would want me to join in and confirm his stories but I would just sit there and say nothing so since he had no problem lying to others I know he was lying to me and hopefully he has stopped being a liar for his sake but who knows oh yea God dose but who here on this earth really knows in less they were there to see it first hand!!!!
2006-11-09 00:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by mel416 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well where I'm from (Zimbabwe) that is true for cheating by women. Women have only recently (last 30 yrs or so) started to have proffessional careers along with their male counterparts. Now they can see lots of different people, they are financially independant and they can be away from home with a plausible alabi. So if things ain't going right on the home front they can make up for it at work.
Other areas of concern are: at church (sad), at home (friends, distant relatives), while visiting her family etc.
Men seem to cheat anywhere - from work, to just people they meet in day to day life. And be careful with the maid or babysitter
2006-11-09 00:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cheating can happen anywhere, anytime and anyplace. The place or building doesn't cause the cheating. People do. I would want to know if my husband was cheating. How can a marriage be healthy if lies are between them?
2006-11-09 00:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by Lori 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My cheating happened at work but mostly via IM's and then discreet meetings. My wife was a stay at home mom but once she started working met a guy and fell in love with him. We are now divorcing so yea cheating happens at work.
2006-11-09 00:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since most people spend about 8hrs a day at work, they see people there more than their families... So yes, the workplace is a great place to have sex... Been there and done it myself...
2006-11-09 00:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes most cheating occurs at work, i think it's because people work with same people everday, long hours. i would want to know if my spouse was cheating.
2006-11-09 00:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well a couple of my close friends found out that their spouses have been cheating on line , one of them filed for divorce , both have jobs and educated , so i guess thats the BIG thing now????
2006-11-09 00:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by maya v 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most cheaters find thier paramour at work, but the rest look for them at bars, and any other places where people hang out.
2006-11-09 00:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋