my husdand has left. but i find myself missing him so much. i knwo he has another woman.My friend say he has a spell on him because she cannot belive he just leave like that. she say he was so in love with me she was jellous of that so what can i do to get him back, do i just wait, visit him at our shop.
2006-11-09 01:47:11 · 13 answers · asked by pauline s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
start anew.....stop missing him .....he is happy on his own
it is tough but life goes on....all the best
2006-11-09 01:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are positive that he was seeing another woman, perhaps you should think about whether or not saving your marriage is the right choice. Give it a few days, the seek him out to have a discussion. If this was a one-time indiscretion, he regrets it, and you think it can be worked through, you both should consider marriage counseling to help rebuild your marriage, and get back your "envious" relationship. If this has been a lengthy affair, my advice would be to file divorce papers before he does. You cannot trust that kind of man.
But, whatever you do, YOU should not be the one "trying to get him back". YOU are the offended party. If he wants you and not this other woman, he needs to be begging you for forgiveness, not the other way around. Please don't stalk him and make him feel like you are responsible for his actions. Hold your head up high and be proud of who you are. Show him that you are not a toy to be played with. You are his wife he vowed to be faithful to until death.
2006-11-09 09:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is make sure he knows you still love him and want him back the rest is up to him. I know it is hard not to do anything more than that and I'm sorry for the pain you are in but there really isn't much you can do to get him back.
2006-11-09 09:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and move on. Breaking up hurts. Eat some ice-cream, have a tequila night with the girls, watch sappy movies, then go to a spa, get the works, and GET OVER IT!!!!
He's moved on. Why try so hard over someone who doesn't want you anymore...you are only cheapening yourself. Be strong.
2006-11-09 09:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by dancing_in_the_hail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in the world do you want a person that hurts you like this back in your life better to hit yourdelf with a hammer every time you think your missing him it well hurt less then trying to hold on to this person you have been dumped
2006-11-09 09:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him have his fun and don't try to get him back .Don't let him humiliate you for one second more. Find out for sure if he is seeing someone else so you know what you are dealing with .It may be a fling and won't last.
2006-11-09 09:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my answer is ' what do you do when some one stops loving you?'
If you can't help it, then be one of his women and no complain! The guy is not for love no more . He has had enough of you for a while, but he will come back for more - if you don't mind his adventures.
2006-11-09 09:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by seeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said he wanted to leave and you told him okay, that's your problem! If you really cared in the first place you would have fought for him, now it's too late, get over it!
2006-11-09 09:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by Born Country 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My poor, poor baby...forget about him. You deserve better than that. Time will help you forget. You will see.
Stay busy. Go out. Make some new friends. Pursue your own interests.
2006-11-09 09:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by kick it 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, he is not worthy of you.
Move on , the world is full of guys much better than him.
2006-11-09 09:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been dumped, honey. And you gave him permission to dump you. See an attorney ASAP.
2006-11-09 09:49:07 · answer #11 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋