any advice for:?

Question

when i feel like getting high, commiting adultry, or computer porn?

Answer 1

Work out, masturbate and unplug your computer.

Answer 2

Hello,

Honesty, for the getting high part - maybe you need rehab for that.

But for the adultry and computer porn, I would say that you are not be satisfied by the person you are with. That you don't love and respect that person enough to be in a relationship with them.

Trust me, I've been cheated on before and I'm now in an amazing relationship. So I've experienced both ends of the spectrum. The guy that cheated on me did not respect me at all, which is obvious because he took advantage of my feelings for him and embarassed me. And there is no way he loved me, because a guy who was truly in love with me would never cheat on me or look at computer porn, because he would respect me enough and love me enough that he wouldn't want or need to do that.

My advice is to talk to your significant other. Maybe you can repair your relationship, so that you won't need these means of escape to escape your reality.

I hope this helps and good luck.

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with getting high (as long as you dont take any crazy sh*t) or watching computer porn. Adultry is ok as long as nobody finds out :) .

Dont worry about what other people think, just do what comes natural!

Answer 4

go ahead and get high if ya really think its needed, adultry never solves anything, theres nothing wrong with looking at a little porn every now and again, have fun. Ya only live once.

Answer 5

Well if you want to committ adultery or hit the porn sites, you're obviously horny...go hit up the Mrs. to get your freak on...and the high will come from the orgasm honey....problem solved!

Well, it's either that, or you go smoke something, sleep with the first woman that comes along and then you get divorced, and lose everything but the internet porn. I know the saying goes "nobody knows how to please you like you know how to please yourself", but there's also something to be said about being so selfish too! I've never heard of a happy, horny, lonely guy....they usually end up as those perverts who move back in with mommy and daddy and live in their basement smoking the pot to get high watching girls on the net they are never going to get.

My advice....take option one, kill two birds with one stone and be happy while you make the Mrs. Happy too!

Answer 6

Drug addiction and porn addiction are pretty serious things that a lot of men struggle with. You can seek counseuling, or you can consider either reading a book *source* called Every young man's battle? or you can consider finding another online source that gives advice on how to deny the desire. Really its a very psychological thing, the reason you want to keep doing it is because it is mentally and physically pleasing to you, but the first step to recovery is admitting you have a problem and desiring to changing it.

I know how hard this struggle is, but have faith, you can make it through.

Your on the right road to recovery, really, check out the book in my source.

Sincerely,
Ezekiel

Answer 7

wen u feel like gettin high then go ahead, when u feel like commiting adultry then go ahead, and well....whos doesnt watch porn

Answer 8

Yes, start with the computer porn, then get high forget that you are married and sleep with someone, blame it all on the Dope! And I am not meaning dope as in pot. LOL

Answer 9

Are you bored? Maybe you need a hobby? Or a sport to take up? Or a divorce? Pick your "poison" but for heavens sake don't hurt your wife because you're having problems with yourself! She doesn't deserve that! Find out why you need to add danger to your life.

Answer 10

Don't feel like getting high.