We have been married for 9 years and have just went through one of the worst patches in our marriage. We have successfuly gotten through the other side and I am actually glad it all happened, because I woke up and realized how much I love my husband, and how much for granted I was taking our relationship.....I believe he feels the same way... So what is an amazing way to plan a night to show him how much i love him? He's not into all the romantic stuff ( flowers, etc)....lol although I would adore that happening from him.....I just want him to really feel how special he is to me......Help me....
2006-11-09 03:20:44 · 11 answers · asked by sifford844 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hire a nice hooker for him.
2006-11-09 03:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to do something spectacluar this is so cute! He's not very romantic ok so what is he into? What is your budget whats that like? What if you renewed your vowes on your tenth aniversary? That would be really special. What about a spa treatment out of town?Or if he is into golfing take him golfing although the weather is a factor it depends on where you live. Get tickets to his favorite team and take him there and rent a hotel room with a jacuzzi in it. Have the staff light some candles before you get there. Just do something that he is really into and have a nice dinner at a great restuarant and get a hotel room for the night. Its better than going home in my opinion you could make it an all day thing if you wanted to take him to a spa which is so relaxing for the two of you and head over to dinner and then go to your activity and then go to a hotel room.
This should make him feel special just knowing that you put effort into a nice evening. And he should know that you love him afterall you did work out a rough patch. Its appriopriate to celebrate your love but it doesnt mean that its going to prove to him that you love him. But this is really cute and it makes me feel good because everyone elses stories are so discouraging and its nice to hear that sometimes people do stick it through the really rough times and work things out. I think its important to know that no matter who are with there will always be bumps on road and its nice to hear that someone out there hasnt given up on their marriage over it. Thanks for the hope!
2006-11-09 11:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by hmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great Question, made me think. I as a man enjoy spoiling my partner and showing her how special she is to me, but sometimes I wish she would make the same effort. Do not get me wrong, I know she loves me but a few surprises would be nice. so, my idea. A nice evening out if it can be arranged without him knowing. No kids, no chors, he comes home from work and you are standing by the front door saying lets go. nice quiet pub, a loving hug, maybe a soft kiss. a quiet dinner. and now the best part, going home for the night cap, a massage, candles. wine, soft music, dancing in the living room, and a whispered I love you.... the rest will take care of itself. Good luck....
2006-11-09 11:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by Charlie 1967 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the type of guy he is I would say a simple night out on the town and a romantic evening at home afterwards is the way to go. Sounds from what youre saying a sports bar and a few beers together followed by an evening in bed would be the best way to go. He will be happy just having time with you in a nice comfortable way for him to just kick back and enjoy himself with your company. Just be yourself and everything always works out. Overthinking things always seems to lead to disappointment...just a fun night out with your company would be great.
2006-11-09 11:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think dukalink is on the right way... I see this type of question pop up all the time and all I can think of is that that is not really what matters. What matters is that you everyday hug and kiss him in an intended non automatic way. Tell him you are happy to be with him etc.
2006-11-09 11:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by John Dull est 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cooking him a good dinner a nice roast, while you do that let him watch the footy with a tinny or two, have the meal and some wine and relax after and focus on him for the night...he'll love it...just make it his night!
2006-11-09 11:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by chris2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good Nite On the Town Dinner drink's Then Home To the bedroom.
2006-11-09 11:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by bob r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prepare aan amazing dinner at home with his special food and then make it a romantic night endin up to the bed!!
2006-11-09 11:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys should get a nice hotel room and have another honeymoon.
Good for you both for coming out of this so very well.
2006-11-09 12:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is the glue that holds relationships together,,everything else is gravey to your marriage..start there,then a hug or two.passinate kisses,then time doing some outside things together..movies,dinner whatever...mmmm.
2006-11-09 13:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by jesse-dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then just a nice hug every day, to show that you care and love him.
2006-11-09 11:23:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋