for husbands only...?

Question

what is a husband looking for in his wife...what r husbands missing in their wives...in general what are men looking for in their dream lady....

Answer 1

We want someone who will allow us to be successful. Doesn't matter if it is professional, sexual etc. We want someone to help us be better, support us in all that we do.

Someone who will pick us up, dust us off and throw us back into the fight when we fall.

We choose our spouse, we choose them to be there for us, support us, please us, and comfort us. Being chosen to be that person is very special.

Answer 2

Two things most of my long-time married buddies complain about most are these:

[1] Her sex life completely changes as soon as she gets the ring. She neglects to mention that this change away from great wild all-the-time hummers and other great sex is going to happen, becoming infrequent, grudgingly given 15 minute two pump chump sessions, and sex once a week or less drives men completely frustratingly insane.

[2] Women like to play devil's advocate when men have ideas.

What we wish would happen:
Man: "Let's get a little love nest condo up at the lake."
Woman: "Oooh honey what a great idea. Let's make it a project and work on it together and see if it can work. But first, let's screw like hungry tigers."

What really happens:
Man: "Let's get a little love nest condo up at the lake."
"Woman: "What about the freezing pipes? Who's going to fix the windows when they break and we aren't there? That's another $1,600 a year in property taxes, you know. What if the vacuum cleaner bags pop when no one is around? What if a light bulb shorts out and burns it to the ground? Do you have enough fire insurance? You better call our agent and tell him. I don't like bears. Where will my mother stay when she comes up for the entire summer? Have you thought about propane issues? I don't want a second place to have to dust, you know."

Well, you get the idea.

Solving those two issues - and they are huge ones - would make things go much better for married guys.

Answer 3

A Lady that turns him on. One that takes care of the home and still have time for him. Most of all someone that he can call his friend and be able to talk about anything at all and know that it is OK. This is just the be gaining it will keep growing with time. You get to the point that you know what the other is thinking be for they say a word. The two of you become one unit, you don't feel right when you are apart and can't want to get back together.

Answer 4

I was looking for the perfect woman to be my wife. I know there is no such thing as the perfect woman. Therefore, I would never have to get married again! However, I recently meat a wonderful girl and have changed my mind about the whole getting remarried thing. She's sweet, kind, Innocent, sexual, beautiful, bitchy, vengeful, experienced, raunchy, and all around a pain in the ***! But she seams to do them all at the right time and the right places for me. I guess I'm saying that to each his own. nobody can tell you what their dream lady is and if they do, it will change with time. I guess my dream lady is someone who can tell me what she wants and will listen to what I want so we can make each other happy.

Answer 5

This may sound silly, but what we're looking for is pretty much the same as what a woman looks for in a man, only from a male perspective.

Charm, wit, attractiveness, appreciation, calmness, gratefulness, being able, loving, nurturing, compassionate, sexy, playful, gentle, intelligence, compatible and captivated by my presence and mine with hers.

In other words... Everything she's shared with you prior to one month before the ring goes on her finger. (I'm sure a lot of women will say the same thing about men.) lol

Answer 6

I am sure a lot of guys say something about sex and this is important and that isn't everything well lets skip over this....
What I like are the things that people do not see. The gentle touch when we are at the store not like a hug but just when she walks by and grab my hand or if we are talking to someone and she see something on my face or shirt she will wipe it off I am not saying if I have a bugger on my nose she will wipe it off. LOL
Or a hug when he is down or at the end of the day and a kiss. and let him know he is important to her by saying she is glad that they meet and so on. just keeping it very much alive and staying young. I see it a lot in my sister and my brother and they have been married for 36 years well that is my sister and my brother he has been 29 years . Good for you to ask you do care and I am sure you are a keeper good for him. GOOD LUCK

Answer 7

Caramella, you've asked 3 questions already, but I'll answer the last one for the obvious reason that I'm NOT married. What I'm looking for in my dream lady is a combination of sincerity, cuteness, and intelligence. Do you have that combination, if yes, contact me through my profile now and let's have some chat. cya soonest.

Answer 8

Honesty and devotion. Independence and an opionion. The ability to communicate, both verbally and non-verbally. A love of children and a strong sense of family. Self-confidence and a little bit of flair. A love for trying new things (food, travel, adventure). An appreciation of simple things and old-fashion chivalry. A desire to care for herself physically (not rock-hard abs, but just in general). A commitment to a passionate intimate relationship. A fun sense of humor. An interest and respect for things I like, and the expectation of the same in return. She must want to be the center of my universe, and me the center of hers.

Answer 9

Im looking for Salma Hayek in my dream lady, Im looking for whom my wife is in my wife, only sometimes I wish she would act like she did when I first met her, Im sure she feels the same about me, people change oh well got Salmas number?

Answer 10

great conversation, a self reliant woman who can handle little things herself but will ask for help on major issues. I'm looking for a woman who is as they say, "a lady in public and a wild thing in the bedroom".....is that asking too much?

Answer 11

i thought i new but as i have grown up [with my wife] i relize that people change and what i wanted then is not what i want now .my dream girl is just that a dream and no woman could or should have to try to be anything less or more then there selves .