You think you met the guy/girl of your dreams and decided to get married. Years later, you wish you had waited. It's not necessarily that you want a divorce, you just wish you had given yourself some more time.
2006-11-09 22:02:40 · 13 answers · asked by adazhia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes me! at times i wish i had waited a little more longer to discover my partner more. i feel am married to a total stanger now and i regret it.
2006-11-09 22:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by wittybaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for anyone else. But, my answer in NO. I moved in with my husband when i was 17 he was my first lover. And 16+ years later I am greatful to god for him he is my soul mate. I meet people all the time that didn't get married intil their20,30,40's. And they had the opportunities I didn't they lived on there own dated lots of people and you know what that are and have been misirable. I have a neighbor how is very old fashioned he told me when we first met 7 years ago that. If I was his daughter he wouldn't had let me live with my huband at 17 or marry him while I was still in college because by my Mom letting me do so I missed out on too much. You know what he recently told me he was wrong he thinks it is so cool that we have been together this long that he thinks that us getting married so young and growing up together in the process is what made us so close. That he wishes he could have for one day what we have.
2006-11-10 12:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I started dating my husband at 16 and we got married at 20. Now, we have been married for 5 years and I have really been regretting that there are a lot of things that I didn't get to do. We also had a child 1 year after marriage. I love my son but sometimes I just feel like I missed out on stuff.
2006-11-10 00:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by jacemo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got married when i was 16 , 13 years later it ended got married again 1 year later lasted 8 years , do i regret it nope got 4 great kids out of it , and now am living life to the full
2006-11-09 22:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by chrissy b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been given married at 21. We began residing together in college and till now you be attentive to it we've been married till now commencement. it is been 3 years and we are nevertheless so very immature. we adore one yet another and attempt very no longer effortless to maintain it together. i do no longer remorseful approximately it. even though it does make you ask your self from time to time the way it could have been in any different case. The what ifs can in some situations be depressing. you start to drift from acquaintances and the failings you desire to do. i individually sense sorry to my considerable different that I secretly long for on my own time. in case you have lots of issues which you would be wanting to do - do no longer new child your self which you will proceed doing them. you will lose lots of it. you apart from mght benefit an incredible quantity and it is totally properly worth it. yet marriage is an somewhat based relationship. appreciate your independence mutually because it lasts.
2016-12-14 04:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got married but i did it for all the wrong reason i was so scared of being alone so now i am divorced but happy
2006-11-09 22:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are still married - my gawd, after years, thats incredible....
Only kidding, but truthfully, you haven't missed out on much - they are all pretty much the same...
The only other thing that you probably would have achieved is sex after sex after sex and slutted your body away - only to dream of where you are right now.
Believe me sweetie - you haven't missed out on a thing!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-09 22:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by Pooroldpossum 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES
I was too stupid at 21 to realize that there is a life out there!
2006-11-09 22:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i don't wish i waited, but there are alot of people out there like that
2006-11-09 22:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not from experiance but most of my friends have said that
2006-11-09 22:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋