How can I prevent My daughter not to get marry to a boy of other community much older to her and not good?

Answer 1

YOU SIT WITH HER AND TALK ABOUT HER LOVE AND ADVISE HER BAD AND GOOD BOTH WITH MARRIAGE OF THAT BOY AND ALSO TELL ABOUT YOUR PLAN TO MARRIAGE HER. MAY BE SHE LIKES YOUR PLAN AND DROP THE IDEA OF HER CHOICE.

Answer 2

I am sure she is aware of your concerns, if not...perhaps you should speak with her. Ask her to be engaged alittle longer, perhaps she will see if you are right or wrong. Why isn't he "good"? remember the saying walk a mile in my shoes , then you can judge me. How much older? Being older is not always bad depending on the age difference. (if he is the same age as her dad or grandpa...yeah, there is a problem) Another solution for you may be to allow them to live together before marriage to see if it works. The reality is we all make mistakes, no matter how many people give us direction. Sometimes its the only way for some people to learn. Just be supportive, the more you buck the situation, the further you push her away. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

Indian law gives any adult person the right to choose his or her life partner, whether good or bad, and marry her/him accordingly. So, if your daughter is an adult, you can't do pretty much legally, except try to convince her with a sound argument and hope that she listens. You may also invite other responsible people (relatives, friends etc.) to advice her on this matter. As it is, many young people don't heed their parent's/guardian's advice in such matters and act on their unsound belief or instincts, only to end up losers later in their lives. However, social pressures and timely intervention by people of influence and authority often acts as a deterrent. So piling up the pressure mentally on your daughter or hitting a sentimental chord could work. But don't stretch it to the point where she does something drastic, foolish and tragic.

Answer 4

sorry to say this in love the is no community
or age
love come but once and not twice
be happy that ur daughter have found
some one to marry her so why do really want
to stop her marry her love.
my elder sister had the same case
but she did not listing to my parent
she went and get marry without the knowledge of
my parent and that is really painful
u better thanks God that she told u......
sorry but give her a chance
if they are made to be together they will be
and no one will stop them from getting marry
expect God

Answer 5

Mum. how can you know he is bad, some boys of other community or older still good for your daughter, don't be too strict, mum, true love is more important

Answer 6

it is not going to help you in any way. She will only leave him with time. Jus say you agree to her proposal and will get her married after a few years. If denied she will be vulnerable to ill advices of her friends circle saying they will help in register marriage and will leave you all without saying.

Answer 7

You just need to sit down with her an express your concerns.don't yell at her and try not to argue. Ask her what she sees in the man and tell her what you see. Believe it or not sometimes kids might be open if you just settle down to their level. Instead of arguing.

Answer 8

If she is old enough to get married she is old enough. Sometimes our kids make mistakes and we can't do anything abou it.

Young adults make their own choices. Suppport her or you could lose her

Answer 9

go out with both of them...try and see what it is she likes about him...once u know that and u win her confidence as her friend...then tell her what u dun like about him...
then she will listen to you..!!

try i know it hurts seeing ur daughter walk into a mess..
god is with u...

Answer 10

you really can't but you can express your concerns but you must tell her the decision is hers and if you back off alittle alot of times they change there mind if you are too pushy they do it just to get at you.