What do you do when he shuts you out of his life,
Dosen't talk to you or let you into what he is doing,
Dosent hold you at night either,
Especially when you think he has something fishy with a girl
Been married for close to two years
I dont want to ask him about the girl cos it will make him happy and proud and make me appear insecure.
Iam also trying to make him jealous, although i have nothing going on with another man.
i've been making lots of hush-hush calls lately which is quite unlike me.i also call my phone from a call center with hidden id.
Where do you think this game is hading to????????
He is showing no sign of jealousy. what do i do,iam beautiful,mind you and iam older too.
2006-11-09 22:07:41 · 7 answers · asked by helpmegetaname 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
PLAYING "GAMES" IS NOT HE SOLUTION. MAYBE HE IS WITHDRAWING BECAUSE HE THINKS YOU ARE, OR YOU ARE HAVING AN AFFAIR! BE HONEST, TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND THAT YOU WANT AN ANSWER, NOT THE ONE YOU WOULD LIKE TO HEAR, BUT THE TRUTH, NO MATTER WHAT IT IS. YOU WILL BE ABLE TO GET THROUGH IT, YOU CAN ALWAYS TURN BACK TO YAHOO QUES. AND ANS. FOR HELP., BUT NOW IS THE TIME FOR HONESTY. YOU CAN NOT KEEP UP WITH LIFE THIS WAY. GOOD LUCK, KEEP IN TOUCH.
2006-11-09 22:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Games like that are just not worth it. If you have any questions in the relationship just ask. For him to sit there and act all proud when your insecure is just wrong, and no body should be treated like that. Don't play the games with him...they will lead you down a road that you will never want to go down.... i should know. Just stay on top and you'll see what you need to do later. let him hang himself, then you'll be the one feeling proud because you was real the whole time.
2006-11-10 06:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by jeff0x0 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry but I personally think it's stupid to play games like that. I know you are just trying to get a reaction out of him but apparently it isn't working too well, is it?
If you think he's really seeing somebody then either get into marriage counseling together or get a divorce. It's better than playing the same game.
2006-11-10 06:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by Leila G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about your relationship... it doesn't have to be about the girl, don't try and make him jealous as if he doesn't react you will be more hurt wondering why talk to him don't let it keep going on you deserve better then to not be loved
good luck girl
2006-11-10 06:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by mel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you were not married would you still be with him? This is not a relationship. Get out.
2006-11-10 06:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I replied via email
2006-11-10 06:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think it is time to stop beating a dead horse and move on. good luck
2006-11-10 06:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋