Marriage & Divorce - 7 November 2006

if there is anyone out htere that was cheated on and is trying to work it out pls tell me how do get over the pain when it does surface. (he ended it and begged forgivness, and is not really the type to repeat mistakes, the probblem is that i do not trust him in most areas of life, nad when i think about another women holding him , or the good bye he probably had with her it kills me. it totaly consumes me and it makes it harder for me to let my husband , who is trying so hard, to get close to me. plus i'm still afraid he has feelings towards her).

2006-11-07 20:30:30 · 21 answers · asked by Me 2

if the loved one comes to u after 10yrs of ur marriage what wil u do

2006-11-07 20:26:24 · 15 answers · asked by pummy 1

2006-11-07 20:14:20 · 12 answers · asked by the mask 1

2006-11-07 20:00:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok he used to flirt right in front of me and once he wanted to leave me for another girl but he didn't...it made me physically sick and I couldn't eat or concentrate.. am i overreacting...i can't help but feel sad to this day and upset

2006-11-07 19:50:23 · 7 answers · asked by abc 2

Has anyone faced such situation? Can anyone help me ?

2006-11-07 19:45:52 · 15 answers · asked by Manasa 1

He isn't like this anymore but thinking about it pisses me off so much. I don't want to be mad or sad anymore but it just gets to me.

2006-11-07 19:44:54 · 21 answers · asked by abc 2

I think women cheat more, but since they're so clever they just don't get caught. On top of that, when men feel that their woman is cheating and then confronts them about it the woman can put on such a good act that it makes HIM feel guilty. This used to bother me but now it's kind of funny. What are your thoughts about it?

2006-11-07 19:23:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-07 19:19:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know many will not preceive this right so it would be much appricieated if you didnt leave rude answers. Well for being 17yrs old i concider myself very mature. I have my own apartment, I pay my own bills, i work fulltime and go to school and manage to spend alot of time with my daughter and her dad.
Well we have obviously had to keep it a secret from and legal figures and we are both on probation for past crimes that are in the past we have grown since then. Her dad paid and pampered me thru the whole pregnancy and still does he is a wonderful man. Well his probation today just found out about me and my daughter i have no idea how to prove to the court system that our relationship is a mutual godsent it is the best thing that has happened to either one of is. Please I pray for some good help, until i figure out how to solve this we cant legally see eachother and he cant see our daughter. In idaho where we live you have to get married to be emancipated.

2006-11-07 19:17:00 · 11 answers · asked by Aimee Lay 1

hi friends..i have a prob ..i married my b/f of 2 yrs 6 yrs back we were v happy initialy but after we got a baby boy we r fighting all the time i think there is no love between us as we cant stand each other but i still love him and i know that he loves me too so pls advice thanks!!!
he has become v dominating whatever i ask him his ans is no

2006-11-07 19:10:58 · 26 answers · asked by katty 2

Offically do i have to wait until my divorce? One more thing who invented marriage??

2006-11-07 18:39:58 · 19 answers · asked by jules 4

We've known each other for ten years and just started a sexual relationship 5 months ago. He married a girl because he had been a bachelor for many years. I married for convenience and had given up on true love. My husband has been ill but before he got ill the relationship was pretty much a roommate type thing. No intimacy at all emotionally or physically. But I do love this married man and had always been attracted to him from the first time I met him years ago. Now he says he loves me but doesn't know what he can do about it. He has felt guilty from the beginning because he is a friend to my husband. And with my husband being sick. I have felt guilty too but for not loving my husband the way a wife should love their husband. My husband I have remained by his side even while having this affair I've always put him first because his illness will probably result in death. I don't want him to die and I will stay with him as long as he is on this earth. Need real advice not insults.

2006-11-07 18:36:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fiances ex wife is such a *****.Im a quiet laid back person.They have a 7 yr old and a 10 yr old.It is so sad because all she does is thrive on conflict.Poor kids are always in the middle.Between mom and dad.Shes always turning little things into huge things.Shes a professional liar.I really cannot believe some of the **** this crazy lady comes up with.They've been divorced for three yrs and still just wont stop.Sometimes she'll be cool for a month or 2 then she'll start her **** all over again.I dont know what to do.I dont want to give her what she wants which is apparently me beating her *** once and for all.I cant we will be going to custody court soon and it will never look good.I've just had it Im five mths pregnant with my first baby and im starting to worry about being stressed out from all of this.What should I do?

2006-11-07 18:34:42 · 12 answers · asked by lady2 4

is it possible for individuals who are married to find someone else sexually attractive, even if there's no marital problems @ home? how does one deal with the temptation?

2006-11-07 18:18:51 · 21 answers · asked by big mama 1

A friend of mine wants to get a divorce in the State of Missouri and they have 2 children. They are 15 and 9. Are they old enough to choose who they want to be with or will the court decide no matter what?

2006-11-07 17:57:39 · 11 answers · asked by Vixen 2

is it ok to first have money in the bank, a house and a car before getting married? is it healthy for our relationship to not get married at this time bacause we haven't have these things yet?

2006-11-07 17:47:47 · 8 answers · asked by daejanggeum 1

My husbands child support was figured and we were told their stepfathers income cannot be used, he has been in their lives for 5 years and their mother doesn't work so she has no income counted for her, why can't they use her husbands?

2006-11-07 17:43:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it healthy for a relationship to have girlfriends push their steady boyfriends to secure a bank account and continuously save money in it before getting married?

2006-11-07 17:33:16 · 11 answers · asked by daejanggeum 1

2006-11-07 17:26:38 · 12 answers · asked by kitanaijiji 1

most women I know, don't seem to have this problem. Been down this road before, and I just want time...but he said he won't wait? If I don't marry him he's leaving me....

2006-11-07 15:50:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like my husband who is getting some money here soon, and I think he should invest it in realestate (like a small house). I think he is going to spend it on crap, and squander it.
We had 40,000 dollars last year, and nothing to really show for it other than some new furniture and a big screen tv.
How do I make him see the light???

2006-11-07 15:47:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just got married on oct. 14 and already my husband doesnt care about his apperance. he doesnt brush his teeth doesnt wash his *** and has the nerve to try to get some. we have 2 kids and i havent let myself go. we get married and 2 weeks later he doesnt care anymore. i am disgusted by him. what should i do.

2006-11-07 15:36:04 · 23 answers · asked by alize2882 1

How do I know the attorney General is not cheating us? I have asked the attorney general in Waco, TX - Bryan, TX- and Houston, Tx . None of them seem to know what they are doing. What can we do to get help without having to higher a lawyer?

2006-11-07 15:36:00 · 23 answers · asked by kay 1

Just curious to see how you ladies feel about it when your husbands or b/f's think of themselves first, like it's me first, instead of thinking of you and your feelings and needs before his own?

Personally I think it's wrong, and will admit that I have been guilty of it, and have been working hard at chaning my mentality as far as putting my wife before myself.

2006-11-07 15:30:18 · 23 answers · asked by Bryan M 5

if he only cheat once

2006-11-07 15:26:00 · 33 answers · asked by mizcokebottle_06 1

2006-11-07 15:25:41 · 11 answers · asked by zena 1

what would you do if you were with some one that has 2 daughters and cannot have any more due to a doc's orders to have a historectomy????and how would you except the children???as your own or be friend them or have nothing to do with them????what would you do if you were put in this type of situation???and you would fall inlove with the woman???what truely would you do/???? on;y serious apply please!!!!

2006-11-07 15:22:36 · 6 answers · asked by wendy p 3

Are all men as forgetful as my husband? He forgets things on a regular basis. Then when I say something about it, he acts like I think he's worthless. We've recently been going through some really tough times and although it affects us both, I have been the main one trying to pick ups the pieces and get through this mess. Why isn't he more sensitive to what he's putting me/us through? I had always felt so proud of him and adored him, but these days, I actually enjoy my time away from him. Is he the problem? Am I the problem? Is this something common among men? Can anyone shed some light on this topic?

2006-11-07 15:08:06 · 29 answers · asked by Snow White 2

2006-11-07 15:02:06 · 19 answers · asked by jan h 1