2006-11-07 19:19:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WE HAVE NO KIDS!!
2006-11-07 19:22:25 · update #1
Forty five years ago when my lady and I were married, the sex was frantic and often. It's not so frantic now and certainly not as often, but so much better in so many ways. It's warmer, sweeter, longer lasting and very loving. After all these years my lady still finds new ways to tease and tantalize, and keep our lovemaking just that----love making.
2006-11-07 19:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys, married or not, want sex. The issue is more about with who. It is natural for guys to lose interest in a monogamous relationship. If sex becomes non-spontaneous and routine, they get bored and start to fantasize. A guys imagination runs wild with erotic thoughts and the fantasy of something new and different can cause the passion in your sex life to fade. Although he may care for you, he is also fighting those secret desires of wanting something more. If it's the same old thing and all you talk about after work are the current problems of the day, then it drains his desire. I would suggest taking your sex life to a new level of kink. Role play, domination, toys, lotions, revisit the alternate positions, unexpected timing, and if the two of you are adventurous, even an occasional third partner, or swinging couple...all of these could bring the excitement back, where he doesn't have to think about unfulfilled fantasies. I recognize this isn't going to work for everyone, but it's worth understanding the male mind and giving it some consideration. Let those panties fly and enjoy!
2006-11-08 03:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by seattlego 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not true of all married men. After 14 years of marriage, I am enjoying it at least 4 to 5 times a week!!!
2006-11-08 04:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got the opposite problem with my wife. We've never had that much and it's only gotten less. I blame kids, since we're both still in good shape and attractive enough for our age. Are you in good shape still? Tried to spice things up with lingerie, oral, etc.?
2006-11-08 13:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by tex37curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder the same thing after just five years . I think men loose interest were woman don't .Or they find a hot young chick that keeps them occupied.
2006-11-08 10:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certainly haven't found this to be the problem. My wife is the one who has decided that sex is not important ( she has medical problems) so if you want to be her stand in then figure that 3 times a day is good.
2006-11-08 10:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by nidan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been married 21 years and want it more now than i ever did at 8 yrs
2006-11-08 03:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by southernstranger2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man reaches his sexual peak at 18 and declines with age. A woman reaches her sexual peak at about age 35.
2006-11-08 03:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by Max 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other way round with me for most of the time.
Wife only wants it x1 time a month...
I usually want it x7 times a day...
2006-11-08 07:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex drive goes down the older a man gets and it gets to be the same routine.
2006-11-08 03:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by mrcarl92807 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋