i just got married on oct. 14 and already my husband doesnt care about his apperance. he doesnt brush his teeth doesnt wash his *** and has the nerve to try to get some. we have 2 kids and i havent let myself go. we get married and 2 weeks later he doesnt care anymore. i am disgusted by him. what should i do.
2006-11-07 15:36:04 · 23 answers · asked by alize2882 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him to wash his stanky self or he will NEVER get ANY from you again! UGH! Then turn to magazines and talk about how nice these guys look with their white teeth and their close shave and tell him you miss the days that he was like that. If he dont get it, lock it up and give him none !
2006-11-07 15:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one word for you...ANNULMENT...I would tell that nasty dude you married that he better start taking better care of himself!! He obviously has no respect for himself or you if he's not practicing personal hygiene. If he doesn't change, he never will. So you better say something now. If you do and nothing happens, and you're still not happy, just leave. Because that is just disgusting.
2006-11-07 15:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. It is disgusting with the smell and germs and all. Lock him out of the house until he agrees to clean up his act like a human being should.
2006-11-07 15:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him straight forward that you do not intend to live with someone who doesn't care enough about themselves or others to keep their body clean. Tell him it is a turn off and you will not touch him until he cleans up and showers every day.
2006-11-07 15:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have 3 months to get an annullment .....but seriously, tell him that is not healthy. And that is not good behavior to practice in front of the kids
2006-11-07 15:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Sweet Girl♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hand him a toothbrush, mouthwash and a bar of soap. Remind him of an old adage.....people may be poor but that's no reason for them to be dirty. And unless he puts these items to good use, he is not to approach you.
2006-11-07 17:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was already like that you just never knew. You are going to have to pray to God to give the right words to say to your husband so he will not get upset....I feel for you....Good luck
2006-11-07 15:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by Sasha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Offer to take a shower or bath with him and wash his ***.
2006-11-07 17:14:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha, just tell him to take a shower and that he stinks. Men are like that. Tell him you won't give him oral sex ever again if he doesn't wash! He'll shower.
2006-11-07 17:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am assuming that your both young and if so try this on for size: after a disagreement with my sweetheart, she ended up talking with my father and after a long one way talk with him(i wasn't the one talking) i started to see it her way, i still swear that he treats her as his daughter more than he treats me as his son. it may work depending on if you husband has a strong relationship with his father. and having a family relationship as we do i wouldn't change anything even if i could, it works for us... give it a try. best of luck, you really need it with this dirt bag.
2006-11-07 15:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋