most women I know, don't seem to have this problem. Been down this road before, and I just want time...but he said he won't wait? If I don't marry him he's leaving me....
2006-11-07 15:50:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had the same problem ,been with him since I was a teen(he being older) wanted to do it-or else! So at 21 I took the walk down the aisle. I was in love with him, but was not ready! I'm not going to bore you with the details of how my life turned out, and no one else should. It's a personal choice (only) you can make. But if you want advice or suggestions, I would wait till you feel ready. Unless it is infact a psycholocgical issue about commitment, then you should talk to a profesional who could help you sort things out. Good luck-PS forgive the grammar spell check not working again! LOL PSS Im back again- I looked over some of your answers(nosy) I know! But im a student at stonybrook as well, at Javits most eve's of the week, maybe we can meet up and talk..seems we have some things in common.
2006-11-08 04:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Aces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has an ego problem and is using this to have you show him how much he means to you. I would suggest that you dump him because life will always be a big head game with this guy. And if you look at it,obviously his wants are more important to him than showing any care or understanding for you. You don't need him - or before too long you will be saying, been down that road.
2006-11-08 10:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by nidan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you are a very desireable person in the eyes of men,
weather it be for your personality, your looks, what ever the reason may be..... Men find you desireable. Perhaps you are not discussing relationships before falling into them, it is a good idea to know whom or what your dealing with BEFORE you get involved, that way everyone is on the same page, and you dont have to worry about the topic comming up anymore. Perhaps one day YOU will fall in love with someone, and they may not feel the same....wouldnt you have appreciated it if they had mentioned it BEFORE things got to that point? Oh yeah, one more thing.....Will you marry me?
2006-11-08 02:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by John P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you want? do you see yourself with him for the rest of your life?
marring is not a bad thing, if you find the right person, but you have to make sure he is the right one. I do not like the fact that he can not respect your feeling now, and I am worry if this can be a problem later on.
talk to him and see what your heart and mind tell you, and see what is good for you.
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2006-11-07 23:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea why you have this problem...all the men I meet who want to date me are already married - and don't want to divorce and get married again!
2006-11-08 01:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by Johnna L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must just be the men u meet. I have no desire to get married. Must be just younger who want to marry. Once was enough!
2006-11-08 08:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by kd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends how much time you want, and what is the age groupings of you and your mates.
I'll tell you this much, I've been dating a guy for 4 months and he is FINALLY the right one, and I'd just love for him to want to marry me!
2006-11-08 01:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a lot of money? Assests?
I would be a little concerned about the point that he is trying to manipulate you to marry him. (You know money/ divorce 50%
I know that I wanted to get married (female)...
2006-11-07 23:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by Abbasangel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men have the tendency that the lady whom he love should only be his and not for anyone else that is why for just securing himself they are having intention to get married ...and special reason men don't have patient to sleep alone .......... at night u understand
2006-11-08 01:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by sapanbhuriya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either wants you to support him financially or he wants you to be a domestic slave: doing his laundry, cleaning and cooking for him.
2006-11-08 02:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by Nat R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋