He isn't like this anymore but thinking about it pisses me off so much. I don't want to be mad or sad anymore but it just gets to me.
2006-11-07 19:44:54 · 21 answers · asked by abc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
flirting is exactly what we're SUPPOSED to do before we're married, get over it
2006-11-07 19:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say forgive him if had done something wrong, but he hasn't. GET OVER IT AND GIVE THE GUY A BREAK! Flirting and dating are what single people do -- I'm sure you did the same thing when you were single.
It's sounds like the problem is with you and that you have some insecurity issues. Get some help before you drive him away and make him want to flirt with women.
2006-11-07 19:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by WonderWoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My jealousy flares up every now and then too, but what happened in the past should stay in the past. Just think, as women we did a little flirting too and most likely it was harmless.His flirtin was probably harmless too.
You should try to keep in mind that it is normal male behaviour and he did not "do it to you" because he was not with you.
He is not doing it now so beef up your self esteem and be secure knowing that YOU are the woman that he chose to marry.
2006-11-07 19:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by She-ra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you married him for better or for worse. Don't let it piss you off! He married YOU, so try to relax. Sounds bad, but you knew this going into it. Love yourself for the beautiful woman u are, and take pride in the fact that he loves u for u. Regardless.......men seem to grow up at a slower rate than females. Accept this about him....... and u guys should be fine.
2006-11-07 19:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry about it. You are now married and you said he doesn't do it anymore so why be mad. You are only going to cause problems.
2006-11-07 19:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by kitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep living in the past you will drive him away.
Being jealous is a symptom of low self esteem.
Look, this guy chose you and is still with you....learn to be content and thankful for that.
This is not his issue, it is YOURS.
You are wasting emotional energy on something that doesn't exist.
Live life for today.
You will drive him away if you keep this up.
Be thankful that you have a man who loves you.
2006-11-07 20:51:14 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, you should have considered this BEFORE you got married to him, i think now, that there is a merrige certicicate between the two of you it's too late. if he is different now, flirts less (or does not flirt any) other girls, then put all your worries aside, because he chose to marry YOU and not the others, which means you are special to him. otherwise your marrige life will be terrible and you guyz will devorce...:(
2006-11-07 19:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by VeronicaB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't like that anymore,that means he changed himself for you.Why are you stock in the past?Just forget it and move forward,unless something else pisses you off.
2006-11-07 19:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just lost your trust for him for what had he done but you shouldn't be mad at all this time.. because he did that before you got married right? and the fact that you married him showed that you already forgiven him and accepted him.. so forget about the past..
2006-11-07 19:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical way,loving the chase and seeing how they can catch people,using all ideas in the world,once caught the chase ends and no reason to be like they had been,because they got what they thought they wanted,why work so hard after.
Obviously to keep what you got,(i know it,you know it.) but they don`t think it is necessary to continue wooing when trap is successful.
2006-11-07 19:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by asmoothrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋