Marriage & Divorce - 7 November 2006

One marriage proposal came to me,
both the family are agreed, my unty did some silly mistake, told 1yr less in my date of birth, because of that boy's mother got angry she cancelled this proposal, we try to convence her but she is not agreeing, now what should i do, how to get that proposal back...

2006-11-07 14:59:44 · 8 answers · asked by ani123 1

it will consume me. i am a single grand mother of two one two month old and one three yr. old strugging with a business and mother sick, brother just lost his life and it all seems like to much tell. i wish i could throw up and it all come out on the monitor and i didnt have to explain. i have faith but it is very much tested right now. i want to shake this have to be here for my grandchildren

2006-11-07 14:41:00 · 14 answers · asked by feeling hopeless 1

will a man 42 married 20plus years .......cheat on his wife and leave her and his family (4 children)......for a 21 year old.......he has a new car. a new place to live and yet his family stuggles and its like he doesnt care yes he sees the kids and p;ays support but im talking on a emotional level its only been a few months since the split...he doesnt talk to the wife.and when he does he is usually short and nasty.....almost like the wife is to blame......she thought them happy did thy have problems yes every marriage does but always trusted him and tried to talk about things gave him every chance to talk.....and still he broke her heart.........can anyone enlighten me as to why he feels no remorse why after 20 plus years he can just walk away and not care at all....does he hate the wife.....does the new girl mean more to him .please explain help her understand.......

2006-11-07 14:36:04 · 13 answers · asked by kelly h 1

okay me and my husbadn live with his -parents and his bro and i feel so left out is that normal we've been married for 2 months now and i feel so left out nad his brother always sets there and mouths off about everthing and dont even know wat hes talking about i feel so left out and i need to know if this is noraml or how can u be with someone and feel like ur single?? feel like ur all alone

2006-11-07 14:30:11 · 11 answers · asked by mommyof3 3

what is your true definition of a responsible and compatible man?

2006-11-07 14:29:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband can't sleep unless his sexual needs are met on a daily basis in one form or another. Is there any way to curb this or is it just part of who he is??

2006-11-07 14:29:02 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-11-07 14:27:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-07 14:13:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

property and I alone have paid both the flood and homewoners insurance prem? His atty is fighting that if he reimbuses me the $1900 year year for the last 10 years he can get 1/2 of the proceeds!!!! I NEED HELP AS SOON AS POSSIBLE MEETING WITH ATTY TOMORROW. SHERI

2006-11-07 14:12:35 · 3 answers · asked by Sheri P 1

i work 3 jobs, my husband has only 1, what do i need to do for him to help out like myself and get another job.

2006-11-07 14:05:07 · 11 answers · asked by RHONDA S 1

can u apply for a divorce here in australia? or do u have to go back to the usa? they were married in the usa in april, and want to get a divorce, hes on his way back to australia and she is in the usa. does anyone know what they have to do?

2006-11-07 14:04:15 · 3 answers · asked by *Evry End is a New Beginning* 1

is she a liar and high class prostitute or what. I also feel the law should change, so new wifes/husbands only get the earnings from the day they got married or started living to-gether, not from years earlier, when they divorce?

2006-11-07 14:03:28 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1

Divorced in 1991. Daughter has lived with me some and with her dad, we always tried to do what was best for her financially and agreed to share expenses. Now we have crazy step-mother and our daughter is 19 and going to college. My ex has filed a motion to enforce the child support from 1991 through now - is this legal, our daughter is 19 and we have always verbally agreed on finances. Please help me in Texas.

2006-11-07 14:02:05 · 6 answers · asked by a_cervantez05 1

Im mad, betrayed, wanted revenge... but at thesame time I still have feelings for my husband. (soon to be ex) .... How can I pick-up the pieces and move on?..

2006-11-07 14:01:08 · 29 answers · asked by R 2

My wife states she loves and she can see herself living the rest of her life with me. Sounds good, whats the problem. Wellwhen she was 19 she had an encounter with another female then about a year ago she tells me she'd had another. We've been together for 13 years and married for the last 3.

She told me the other night she was Bi Sexual wantedanother woman so i said ok i'll try help thinking it could help improve our relationship. But then she tells me she's actually allready met someone and has been seeing her for about 2 weeks.

She doesn't want me to join in her fun it's just something for her. I Let the previous times go as one offs and quite erotic actually, everyman fantasy sex was great afterwards. but now it is something new a relationship with someone else. feelings and emotions are envolved, she says it won't come between us because she loves me, but she's going into unknown teritory , how can she say she will feel more or less for me in a month. What shall I Do? HELP

2006-11-07 13:51:45 · 14 answers · asked by Markie B 1

My bf has been very cold to me lately.He does'nt call or sms me for a whole day on our off day..I told him tat i wana watch a movie on the following day n he say he'll get back to me..But he never did.. I thought that he was tired so i just waited for his call.It was almost bedtime when i eventually called him and he was out driving.. i asked him why he didnt get back to me and he said he was out the whole day..I was so upset.He said he will call back as he was driving..But he did'nt.I call him the whole nite but he didnt pick up the phone.I msg him the next day n he didnt reply..n i called him again n again..He replied sayin that he's in a briefing n wants me to stop bein a nuinsance..When i msg him tat i wana end the rltnshp coz i dun deserve 2b treated this way he said that iam just bein too emotional..What is actually wrong with him?Must i proceed with my life and just end everythng..?

2006-11-07 13:50:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

We been married for 5 years. I never knew he watched porn on net. He looked up allsorts of things even gays. i found it on history one day and then a few more times. He denied it at first but now admits it as ok thing to do. I feel betrayed and dont wont to have sex with him ever again but i am really afraid of being alone. What to do?

2006-11-07 13:38:11 · 7 answers · asked by Melbel of the 7 seas 1

MY husband and i have been together for eight years. we married three years ago. we went to iraq but on his leave he came home and we used drugs together like we always have. well i took it over board and then he wanted a divorce. he was the first to introduce me to drugs. now i am here facing all of this on my own i have felony charges and that is my fault. but the one person i love the most has just up and walked out on me. does he love or is he just mad. i have never turned my back on him in eight years of his destruction of his life why would he walk out on me.

2006-11-07 13:32:39 · 10 answers · asked by thumperprice26 1

My wife recently she said that she wanted to loose a little weight and to stop eating processed foods. Part of this was she wanted to buy all our grocieries at the high end organic grocery store. I tried to compromise with her and say maybe we could buy our produce there but she insisted. So I ponied up cutting completely from my expenses(she insisted her shopping and pampering money not be touched) so we could spend the extra 300-400 dollars a month to get our grocereis from there. I recently reviewed our bank statement and found out that she has been eating Dunkin Doougnuts, McDonalds and Taco Bell everyday. Is this a betrayal? How do I handle this, when I confronted her she dismissed me by saying she's a grown woman and she can put in her body what she wants to.

2006-11-07 13:21:19 · 16 answers · asked by BossHogg R 2

but not divorced yet. I don't believe that I will be comfortable dating until I am officially single again. I haven't talked to my soon to be ex in two months so that is not it ( we exchange kids at school so that we don't have to see one another." Any suggestions to get over this? should I?

2006-11-07 13:07:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am engaged to be married and my fiance feels the need to sow his wild oats so to speak. He is going out to the clubs (which is not the problem) but he is getting all of these phone numbers. These skanks are calling the cell phone and leaving messages and text messaging like the sh** is ok. One girl knows that he is getting married and has just flat out said she doesn't care. So how doo you handle the situation when you know that he hasn't crossed the line but it's a possibilty? And leaving him and torture are the first options on my list. Or is the you can do it I can do it better option even better?

2006-11-07 13:04:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

You're all right. I still love my wife she is the reason why I aspire, why I dream, why I live. I have been pre-occupied by my work and this maybe the reason why she's gone to look for another man. She met him on the chatroom. A sweet talker but is a complete liar. He explained things things to me and my wife's parents that he didn't know that she is already married or that nothing happened to them and other stuffs but my wife has confirmed they were all lies and yet she still loves him. Its a mental and emotional torture to me esp. when she says it'll never work out bet us ever again and she does'nt feel anything for me anymore. I don't know what this guy has promised her but when I asked him if he could take care of my wife and if he could really love her I'll set my wife free for her own happiness just as he could promise me but he just answered that he is not sure. I worry for my wife she doesn't eat much, she wants to be alone staring at nothing and she's smoking cigar again.

2006-11-07 13:02:47 · 2 answers · asked by Sonny 1

My husband went on a business trip for two days so my sister is staying with me while he is gone. Last night my sister wanted to watch Fantasia on the laser disc player and I told her that my husband didn't want me to touch any of the electronics except for the TV but she convinced me to do it. Well I didn't know exactly how to do it but I pushed the button to open up the tray thing and then I thought you just pushed the tray back in. ( I didn't know there was a button. Anyways I heard something snap and it closed and wouldn't come out. Today we took it to the repair shop and the man said it would cost 250 dollars to fix and he would have to order the part from Japan which means it would take two weeks. I know my husband will punish me severely for this because he told me not to mess with his electronics and I did anyway. I know I was bad, but I really don't want to get into trouble. Does anyone have any ideas on what I could do so he won't find out until this gets fixed?

2006-11-07 12:51:41 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 2 years to a man with 3 children. I have 2 myself. I work in marketing from home therefore it is me who takes care of all 5 kids. I treat all kids as equals since this is my "family." I find myself constantly stressed because my husband will rarely converse with my sons at all. How could I relay to my husband that I need to see him interacting with my children in a fatherly way? He just took my 10 yr old son on a 30 minute trip to Walmart this weekend. It was the first time he has taken my youngest out alone since I have known him. I find myself extremely frustrated that I give so much of myself yet feel all alone when it comes to my children. It causes arguements and to be totally honest it ticks me off to no end.

2006-11-07 12:50:20 · 11 answers · asked by just me 4

2006-11-07 12:49:09 · 21 answers · asked by italybd 1

is it always just a lust thing? wanting what you can't have and all that? do these kinds of relationships EVER work out?

2006-11-07 12:48:07 · 27 answers · asked by kadface 1

I have three encounters with women, but they were all drunken 1 offs. My husband knew about them afterwards and he didn't mind, infact it helped with better sex.

last week out of the blue i decided to go on alesbian chat site and met someone we spoke on the net and we have met up twice. I told my husband after the second meeting and i thought he would be ok with it but he's not. he says he was happy when it was no strings one night only encounters but an on going relationship he can't deal with. he says i'm entering the unknown and i do not know how much i will end up liking it with my gf and it will damage our relationship. niether me or my gf want threesome so he could never join us. i s he right to be worried? what shall i do?

2006-11-07 12:47:14 · 12 answers · asked by Andrea B 1

I was looking through questions and found one my fiance left saying he checks out other girls and wonders. In his details it says he doesn't even know if he wants a relationship. We are getting married in December. What should i do.

2006-11-07 12:45:40 · 10 answers · asked by Amber M 1

if anybody has any ideas plz let me know!!! I AM BORED OUT OF MY MIND!!!!!!!

2006-11-07 12:33:46 · 11 answers · asked by Makayla G 1

2006-11-07 12:20:14 · 20 answers · asked by S K 7