I was looking through questions and found one my fiance left saying he checks out other girls and wonders. In his details it says he doesn't even know if he wants a relationship. We are getting married in December. What should i do.
2006-11-07 12:45:40 · 10 answers · asked by Amber M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to him.
2006-11-07 12:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know if he wants a relationship yet you are getting married in December? Gee, what do you think? Hes prob boning other girls anyway.
2006-11-07 20:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Vince 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to question his doubts. If he is still looking around and you are about to be married then he probably isnt ready. Its better to straighten this up now than wait until your married and he drops the ball on you and cheats.
2006-11-07 21:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him you noticed something he put down on here and was wondering what he meant by it. It's better to get it out in the open now instead of after you are husband and wife. ;o) good luck to you.
2006-11-07 20:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's perfectly normal to always wonder what if. he is probably seeing himself getting married and being tied down to one woman, he is just merrily making sure that he is doing the right thing. im married and look too, i wouldnt ever act on anything. it is normal to look and admire beauty, my wife isn't the only beautiful woman out there. im sure she sees better looking guys, no big deal
2006-11-07 21:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it's time to sit on the couch and TALK until everything is talked about........I mean everything. Divorce is expensive and hurtful......you shouldn't even have to be thinking of that now.
Talk
Best Wishes!
2006-11-07 21:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would confront him and if he doesn't give a good enough explanation i would consider calling off the wedding honey because the drama has already started after you marry him it will only get worse.
2006-11-07 22:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by AlishaM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No marriage + itching cream in his underwear drawer = a new lease on life for you.
Run, girl, run!
2006-11-07 21:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with piepiepie. You have to find out what is going on.
2006-11-07 20:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal for guys to wonder. They wouldn't be normal it they didn't. I believe he's nervous about the BIG STEP. Don't read much negative things into it. THINK POSITIVE, HE LOVES YOU! (if it really bothers you...................TALK TO HIM.
2006-11-07 23:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by LuvMe2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋