My husband went on a business trip for two days so my sister is staying with me while he is gone. Last night my sister wanted to watch Fantasia on the laser disc player and I told her that my husband didn't want me to touch any of the electronics except for the TV but she convinced me to do it. Well I didn't know exactly how to do it but I pushed the button to open up the tray thing and then I thought you just pushed the tray back in. ( I didn't know there was a button. Anyways I heard something snap and it closed and wouldn't come out. Today we took it to the repair shop and the man said it would cost 250 dollars to fix and he would have to order the part from Japan which means it would take two weeks. I know my husband will punish me severely for this because he told me not to mess with his electronics and I did anyway. I know I was bad, but I really don't want to get into trouble. Does anyone have any ideas on what I could do so he won't find out until this gets fixed?
2006-11-07 12:51:41 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how old are you? your acting like a little kid. your husband can get mad but he can't punish you for it. It was an acident And if ur husband punishes you; you might be in an abusive relationship and need to get out of it.
2006-11-07 12:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by mercygirlsrock 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I am really much less concerned about the laser disc player and more interested in what you mean by "punish". If you mean he will physically hurt or abuse you, that you are actually worried that your life will be worse because you made a mistake and he is the cause of the worry or even that he will just yell and make you feel rotten then I hope your next question is how to get away from him. He's your husband, not your father. Don't both of you own the equipment? OK, so you didn't know how to use it and something got broken but a simple I'm sorry and getting it fixed is how it works in most marriages. Mature, functioning ones anyway. If you need help getting the lazer disc fixed behind his back I would suggest that you call every number in the book until you can find one that can do it quicker. If you are afraid of him I have much more info for you. I worked with victims of domestic violence for many years and would be more than happy to point you to some help. Even if he doesn't hit you, it could still be an abusive relationship. You can email alyc6337@sbcglobal.net. Hang in there.
2006-11-08 01:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punish you?! Wow, I'd like to be a fly on the wall in your house (probably a trailer). Sounds like a bad reality show, maybe you should contact the Fox network. I didn't even know laser disc players were still around. How will your in-bred husband punish you? Wow, I'd hitch up the trailer and get out of town.
2006-11-07 13:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by Bestie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question reaks of creepy. Your husband punishes you? He tells you what you are and are not allowed to touch in your house? I think you have more problems than just a broken laser disc player. It sounds like your husband abuses you! I wouldn't stand for that and niether should you. So what, you broke an electronic! Tell your husband you are sorry and that it's being fixed. If he does anything besides getting a tiny bit upset only to forgive you a few minutes later, leave the bastard unless he gets therapy for his problems and changes.
2006-11-07 12:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Little Angel. Break the DVD player tonight. Strip the cord. Little Angel, break the VCR tomorrow morning. Make your toast for breakfast in it. Draw mustaches on the news anchors with a Sharpie marker after that right on his new HDTV. After that go ahead and set out all the weapons of your demise and just do us all a favor and get it over with. Also, there is NO SUCH thing as ordering a part from Japan, my dear. Wanna buy some swamp land, its really cheap and beautiful. A deal you CANNOT refuse. you CANNOT. Email me. You CANNOT. Or else, Little Angel. You and your sister get ready with your best offer. Oh yeah, kick in the speakers as well. Good girl, Little Angel.
2006-11-07 13:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me! Your his wife, not his daughter! Tell him to f---off, it was an accident. As for not being able to touch his stuff, if I were told that.... his stuff would be in the trash the next day! Come on, don't take that crap from anyone. I really hope your not afraid, of him. I can understand being afraid if you were cheating or set the house on fire, but this is ridiculous. What example will you be setting for your children, if they see there mom being pushed around. Take the charge card, get it fixed, say your sorry, it cost you, honey! end of story-
2006-11-07 14:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by Aces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really tired of yahoo questions...
the laser disc is not your biggest problem. You're being abused if your afraid of punishment. Get out of that relationship and quick.. and take the broken laser disc player and the TV with you..
2006-11-07 13:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by eloriarl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. If you can reasonably fix it, do so. Also- you said your husband will punish you???? Sweetie, if he's punishing you, you've got issues. He's your husband, not your father. And I'm assuming you're a grown woman, don't put up with that! If he is mistreating you, harming you in ANY way (physically or mentally) you need to leave NOW.
2006-11-09 15:14:43 · answer #8 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My greatest fear for you in this whole thing is that you sound like a sixteen year old child who expects to be punished by daddy. You sound too condescending and too submissive. The fact is that you should be able to touch and trouble everything in the house without any problem. I do not see the reason for him telling you not to touch his things. This sounds too childish and too much like you are a beggar. The reality is that when he returns you just say to him this is what happened and tell him the truth as it is. If he chooses to eat you like a child and you choose to take it so be it but I think that you should grow up.
2006-11-07 13:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 21:48:42 · answer #10 · answered by hertling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you shouldn't hide things from him like that. If you have to then obviously he is abusive (doesn't have to be physical). If he is abusive then HE has a problem, I suggest you seek counseling to see what you can do to cope with this man or get out of the marriage. If it isn't abusive yet, it will be.
He sounds like he treats you like a child. You SHOULD know how to operate all of the eletronics in your home, it is YOUR home too and the electronics are HALF your's.
2006-11-07 12:54:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋