Why do women cheat on there husband when they work long hours to support them and then say there not around?

Answer 1

Because they work long hours and are not around.

Answer 2

Whether you are supporting your wife or not, that's not the issue. Women OR men are bound to cheat if the opportunity presents itself. The wife may feel the husband isn't paying attention to her. Maybe she is thinking she's not pretty enough, not sexy enough to get her husband's attention. Then some other guy starts telling her how pretty he thinks she is or how sexy she is. Women eat that up. Any man that can make a woman feel sexy about herself has got a foot in the door. There are lots of reasons why people cheat. Lack of attention, bad sex, insecurity, low self esteem, big egos. But the woman who cheats because her husband is not around probably comes back to lack of attention. She does not feel her husband is paying her attention...but this other guy over here is...hmmm...put two and two together. A woman who values her marriage won't...but a woman who feels her marriage is going down the tubes because her husband isn't around just might.

Answer 3

You know I have asked myself that question too, and I always come back to the same answer and that is because we are not satisfied enough...It is not just because we are not grateful because of our husbands working hard to make a living and keeping food in the house and keeping a roof over our heads, it is none of that it is that we need to have attention..And I am speaking from experience...I like attention and if my husband is too tired to give it to me or if his job has put me on the back burner then I am going to find someone who will give me the attention and the satisfaction that I truely deserve....I am not saying my husband is a bad man...I have been married to him for 18 years but there are times that things do change...And it can be caused by the both of us which can be fixed if we want it to be. The bottom line is this my friend I respect your opinion but there are just as many lonely men as there are females and there is always somebody out there that is looking for stimulating conversations and fun chats....So if cheating is what you want to call it that is fine too but it takes two for a thing to go right! And when women cheat that means that they are not taken care of in bed or mentally and spiritually...Like I said I have had my bad times with my husband and yes he knows about them all but one thing that I have that no other women has or has not done and that is keep fighting and working on the problems that got me there in the first place......I am not a quitter far as fighting and I don't blame everyone for my mistakes, but what I will say is that I am honest enought to admit that I have made mistakes...And that is why my husband is still with me and he loves me for who and what I am and that is a woman of integrity and honesty.
So I had my say on this question but remember this women just don't cheat just to do it there are reasons and those reasons most men don't want to hear.

Answer 4

Oh my look at all these assholes in here! Dont pay those dummies any attention about a woman being a ho if they cheat because you dont here that when the roles are reversed about a guy! If your wife is cheating its because she definetly is lonely and im pretty sure she has told you repeatedly and has been ignored so I would say if she did ask for extra attention and you didn't give it to her then its your fault. Maybe just start working on that area a little more if you want to keep her out of someone elses bed.
GOOD LUCK SWEETY!

Answer 5

Because he is working late hours and isn't home enough that's why. How would a man feel if th ewoman workked all day and when she got home she was always tired for him. He would cheat in a heartbeat. The idea is if you have to work long hours remember a hot, juicy, horny woman is waiting for you at home, so work some and rest then work some and rest cause when you get home you will be very tired when she gets thru with you.

Answer 6

okay i am sure all these self-righteous goodie goodies on here are going to say because they are sluts, whores etc.

but really having been a woman who cheated on her husband who is a hard working man who provides for his family -- it had nothing to do with what he was doing as far as work to provide for us as a family

it isn't right but if a husband is only working long hours but in the free time he isn't attending to his wife's needs which may not be what he sees as being a good husband she will find a way to have that need met just because we can be weak vulnerable creatures - communication and so much more are important when time is limited

it doesn't mean she doesn't love her husband and possibly want her marriage to work ... but there is more to a marriage and being a husband than just working long hours...nobody sets out to cheat on their spouse...TRUST ME no 'woman' does that

either way it stinks for the husband and what it does to the wife emotionally ... if this may be the case for you or something you expect try to make it work...trust me i wanted my husband and most of us do....

Answer 7

I think that you just answered your own question. You mentioned that you are not around to be with her. That is the main reason women and men both cheat.
I am not saying this is the only reason, but majority of the ones that cheat use this excuse.

Answer 8

Woman they want a man to support them but in the same sense need that emotional support that sometimes be crazy. I think there is a bigger issue here and i would either address it or move on. I dont like cheaters so i would say move around you deserve better.

Answer 9

Love isn't about money. You can't buy love. You can buy other things but, not love. I wonder though, why don't these women help out and work too? That way their husbands could relax on the hours. Ha, they are probably just lazy er I mean 'professional moms' hahaha.

Answer 10

Ask the women who cheat on their husbands.