Marriage & Divorce - 7 November 2006

2006-11-07 02:23:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do they need you to require more of them to be more themselves?

2006-11-07 02:15:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

she clearly told me that now she dont luv me.i told her thats better we will not talk any more but she still calling me iam very much disturbed

2006-11-07 02:14:58 · 17 answers · asked by saahil k 1

My husband and I have been together for 4 years we were the absolute best of friends, we have a phenomenal sex life, I couldn't ask for better. However he is extremely hurtful in the things he says to me. Often for no apparent reason at all. He critiques everything I do, from the way I drive, take care of the kids,(did I mention we have 4 children involved in this mess- 2 from his previous, 1 from mine and 1 together), there has even been times when he has critiqued my performance in the bedroom. I am open to suggestions when it comes to just about everything, but I think the are ways to say things. He calls me very hurtfull things, most I am sure i can not repeat, here's a hint to his favorite name- Cee yoU Next Tuesday. I'm having a real hard time coping with all of this, not to mention I am almost a prisoner trapped at home with the kids. Any suggestions would be helpful. Do I put up with his s*** or walk?

2006-11-07 02:12:37 · 23 answers · asked by emotionally_confused 1

Not all women need to take this advice but for those do dont know. Please Take heed. Fallatio can make a significant difference on your well you man treats you.

2006-11-07 02:03:13 · 10 answers · asked by Johnny C 2

2006-11-07 02:01:42 · 14 answers · asked by Darren A 1

I have been unvoluntarily seperated from my husband for about three years. It has been a rocky marriage, but I loved and adored him. I reacted in anger from ongoing issues within the marriage, and that coupled with the stress I am experiencing in my life right now led me to just snap. I went to a lawyer and got papers going to divorce him. I jumped head first into a new relationship (though he doesn't KNOW it.....but DOES suspect).
Anyway, he got back to the city we live in last Saturday. He called while I was out, asking to see our child. He hasn't called back. I am so sick. Physically ill, stressed, nauseated....I am a wreck thinking of WHO could he be with, WHY hasn't he called back, and even feeling like I want him back (he tried to reconcile several times, but I was not able to respond to his mail because of my home issues....that was BEFORE he got back to our town). Now it seems like his life has gone on. I think I still want to be in it. I love him. But I dont want to hurt my

2006-11-07 02:01:33 · 16 answers · asked by lilac b 3

A few years ago i got a divorce from my husband. I moved out and got my own place and he used excuses to move himself into the place i rented..i ended up on the couch while he slept in my room! He promised it would only be a few weeks till he got another place,because we have kids together i wondered where they would stay while i was at work on second shift,so i let him in-8 months later he was still there and not paying a dime!So i moved out of state,the kids were in school and not knowing what i could provide for them and not wanting to disprut there live any further i left them with there dad in the home that i rented i payed all the bills ahead a month so after that he would take over the house and get the power and things in his name,which never happened.He recently let the kids move up here with me and no he wants to take them back they have been here since june and are already in school..he said if i tryed to get custody he would say that i abandoned them...we have joint custody

2006-11-07 01:44:14 · 12 answers · asked by QUACKERS 1

how do i tell him i want a divorce and be able to live with him til the end of our lease of the apartment? and i do it all for him and i get nothing in return for doing it all how can i just stay no? i need to stop being walked on but i have 3 kids to care for also and they are acting just like he does to me. please give me any ideals or tips there has been fighting and DV. in the marrieage he get made a me alot and he spits in my fast is that assualt? please help me out thanks for all ur answers

2006-11-07 01:38:47 · 14 answers · asked by ellowyn75 1

We live in india, studying in da same college. His parents are very supportive, but mine, they are the orthodox kind will not approve of such a marriage... I am scared they may take extreme steps to stop us getting married...Please help me... Really confused.

2006-11-07 01:34:03 · 16 answers · asked by confused_1 1

Well its a fact that women are generally better at detecting things like cheating and are normally batter liars. If a woman cheats she in my opinion is far more likely to get away with it than a man. I know that’s why we have marriage, to try to keep women faithful however even with that it still seems women are still far better than men. At such things. I know men aren’t perfect a lot of the time however I bet far more men get caught than women.

What do you think?

2006-11-07 01:32:09 · 41 answers · asked by wartorious 3

2006-11-07 01:26:52 · 8 answers · asked by Alpha a 1

I don't know the cost, or what it comes with. If anybody has information to share please email me or reply on answers.

2006-11-07 01:20:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-07 01:20:42 · 90 answers · asked by numsky 1

My husband and I are going thru a divorce. He is living with another woman and denies it to me and my 2 daughters. The problem is that I really feel as if my kids need an explanation from him as to why he chose to get a divorce. I also feel that they need to get therapy which he disagrees with. Emotionally this is taking a big toll on my kids attitute towards me. If i try to discipline them my oldest responds "iam going to call and tell daddy that you are yelling at me"
I really need some hel[p in dealing with theses issues any suggetions?

2006-11-07 01:05:50 · 13 answers · asked by millie a 1

My husband and I have been together for 7yrs. we have 2 children. he has a drug problem which has already gotten him put in jail and on probation for 3 more years. i told him he could either stop or get out, thinking he would just quit. he's packing his stuff today. I really don't want him to leave, but i can't raise my children around it. should i beg him to stay or hold my ground and let him go?
also, if i called his probation and reported him, would he go to jail, or would he just have to start going in once a month again? do you think it would even help if i did call his probabtion?

2006-11-07 01:03:58 · 27 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-11-07 01:00:08 · 13 answers · asked by jeremiah da man 1

I've been married for almost 6 years now . Why exactly I got married I cann't quite say , I suppose it felt like the right thing . I'm currently in love with another woman who feels the same way (the feeling has always been there +/- 2 years but we admitted it to each other about 6 months ago) . There has been nothing physical between us yet but I fear that it is going to end up that way .

2006-11-07 00:57:31 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2

My husband told me his favorite part of marriage is basically companionship and cuddling. I asked a question and all men answered the same as well. Why don't women know this??? I grew up thinking men didn't really have feelings or emotions and marriage was just something they did. You know, the ball and chain mentality. Why is this? Knowing that other men actually love being married is such a weight off my shoulders, and it would be for other women as well. Why don't women know this?

2006-11-07 00:46:34 · 15 answers · asked by Annie R 2

I wrote before about wanting out after 20 years of a controlling, verbally abusive marriage and now I am getting my "ducks" in a row, job, car, etc. My husband knows I am thinking of leaving and told me he will "leave" and go far away if I want out as he would end up in "jail" if he stayed here. I questioned him on this comment and he said he couldn't see me around with anyone else, or he'd end up in jail. Said he'd never hurt me when I told him "don't threaten me". Last week when we were talking, I told him he couldn't read my mind, he said "If I could read your mind, I'd probably kill you", when I called him on that comment, he said he never said that. Our son heard him, and he said he didn't really mean it that way. WOW, I just want out, with my skin intact and I told him he scares me with all this, he continues to say he'd never hurt me. I have a 16 year old, and 1 in college. I feel like running, but have little money- we'll have a business and house to sell. Comments?

2006-11-07 00:43:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few months after I meet me wife, we had a little debate one night about abortion. She said that she agreed with it because what if you did not love the guy. I said something like, if someone is good enough to jump into bed with then they are good enough to love. Anyway my wife and I had a child about 2 years after we meet, at the first check up visit when she was pregnant I found out that she had a abortion about 3 months before we meet. I did not take it well. After we left the hospital she tried to explained to me why she did it and all and I just did not want to know. I have never said anything to her about it (13 years later), not even when she was telling me why when we left the hospital, but the way I acted she knew I was not happy.
I have thought about it over the years and I realised I understand why she did it and that I should not have acted the way I did.

So,
Would she want me to something like I understand and that I am sorry for being a jerk or just leave it alone?

2006-11-07 00:24:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can she remove my name from my son without my consent?

2006-11-07 00:10:13 · 8 answers · asked by Eric R 1