2006-11-07 01:20:42 · 90 answers · asked by numsky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well my wife is and she doesn't think it's wrong.
2006-11-07 01:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 2⤋
Unfortunately in this wonderful life we do not always get to choose who we are going to be in love with.........It may not be "right" according to most social standards.........But that can not change the way you feel about him........Since I don't know the circumstances you are currently in I am not sure how to answer you but........I would like you to be CAREFUL with your heart....Many times a married man will cheat but have no intention of EVER divorcing their spouse.........So you could be in for one heck of a heart break and a lot of lonely nights waiting for him to actually "be with you!" (and it will hurt really bad when you know you love him and you realize to him you were nothing more than a play toy!)......However if his situation is different and you think it may all work out I would say hang in there........And be ready for all the back stabbing comments that ARE going to come your way about being a home wrecker and stuff.......Good luck to you, really!
2006-11-07 02:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is always good, however lovign somebody does not justify acting on that emotion to the effect of interfering in their marriage. Human beings are not like beasts of the forest- they have the ability to rationalise and make a choice based on more than an instinctive urge to procreate.
In other words, you can love whoever you want to, but you have a choice as to whether you take action upon your urges.
Whether you deem it right ot wrong to have a relationship with a married person is up to you, but you probably already know yourself that it will probably not end well. Most sensible people will be of the same opinion.
It's not for us to justify your actions as right, you have to live with the fall out of any choice you make, not us.
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2006-11-07 01:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Absolutely, if that married man is your husband!!! Otherwise NO. If he's not your present husband, do Not talk to him, AND do not ever see him.
Do not ever be in the same room, alone with him !!!
If this is you, run - as far away as you can.
If your in this type of relationship, immediately break it off and stay away from him(do not even talk to him). And do not ask him break up with his present wife, especially if there are children involed.
If one continues in such a lifestyle, her (& his)
sins will find them out.
It "will" All come out into the open, expossed, and many people who you never expect(ed) will know about it, too !!!
You know how you should live. Your conscious alone tells you from within.
Make the right choices, and then you'll live with a clean, healthy, guiltless, Peaceful, conscious (thought-life), knowing you've made the correct choices.
2006-11-07 01:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I hope what you mean by falling in love with a married man is not to start sleeping around with him and making him to cheat on his wife? If that is, then it's certainly wrong. Hey! put yourself in the wife's shoe, see how it feels.
However if what you mean by falling is love devoid of the above, but just a platonic relationship that doesn't have any ulterior motive of capturing his attention away from his wife and family, then there's noting wrong with that. As long you don't make yourself the centre stage and you know how and where to draw the limits, it's okay
2006-11-07 02:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Davidkay! 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As a child of divorce that stemmed from an affair my Father had......NO NO NO! It is the one thing that has most negatively affected my emotional/psychological development.
I have never grown to accept her (step-mom) as a part of my family, or respect her, as she did not respect those boundries and is half the reason my family is no longer together. This caused many, many problems.
If this guy has kids....shame on you. Be a real woman; if you love him that much, wait till he gets a divorce before "moving in", or maybe just find a man that is available and can commit all his of attention to you.
Or, get used to being "the other woman" and being known as such by everyone that matters to you.
2006-11-07 01:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by hackisackgirl 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Did you know he was married? I feel in love with a man that i didn't know was married, I broke up with him after I found out. There is too many obstacles in this sort of relationship. It takes some time to fall out of love, but I keep reminding my self of KARMA.
2006-11-07 14:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
not as long as you know how to fight! You better hope you can whip that other lady's @ss, cause you are playing with fire here. If my wife caught another woman messing around with me, she would knock sparks off that woman's behind. You want to know if it's right??? Are you sure you couldn't figure this one out? What if the guy has children, and a wife that just depends on him for everything. Do you think it's right to wreck their home? NO and NO and NO and NO!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-11-07 01:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can't help who you fall in love with. Being married I would imagine nothing would ever come of this. If you really love him you will let him carry on with his life, he got married and loves somebody else. Don't do anything to spoil his life. Just forget about him and find somebody new. There are plenty of fish in the sea :)
2006-11-07 01:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by phobzy85 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
NO..... you should never have got into the situation in the first place. Married men are off bounds at all times, you'll end up the loser. It would be far better to fall in love with a single guy.
2006-11-07 03:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You can't help falling in love, but if you do anything about it, it will lead to misery for at least one person!
There is no way to win in a situation like this. If he leaves his wife for you, you will cause her a lot of pain, and you will be with a man you can not trust. A man who cheats on one wife will cheat on another.
Think very carefully before you decide what to do.
2006-11-07 01:26:27 · answer #11 · answered by Copper 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋