2006-11-07 01:26:52 · 8 answers · asked by Alpha a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Break it off and be glad you didn't marry the cheater. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-11-07 02:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look at things "this" way. If a person is going to cheat "before" marriage, they'll cheat "after" marriage. And I also know that because a person cheats, doesn't automatically mean the love you have for them, just "disapears" either. But you will always wonder if it's going to happen again.To stay ingaged, is to be able to forgive, & I don't mean just saying it or thinking it. Forgiveness is a process, and sometimes it takes a long time. And then there is the "family" you speak of. The person who has cheated, feels like this "family" will never trust them again, Plus the person who was cheated on. And they also have to live with themselves, and what they have done. I personally would call off the engagement, even if it's for a while, if for no other reason than for an "emotional" break. It's up to you, Good luck.
2006-11-07 01:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A cheating situation should between you and that other person. If this has spread to be a family scandal, first, shame on the one who exposed the situation. If the knowledge was only between you two, your relationship may have been repairable. Now that others know, this affects other relationships of you two and the families. It is unlikely that all those relationships can be repaired as well.
Unfortunately, since this scandal has gone beyond the two of you. It is likely that happiness will be found after you both have found other people.
2006-11-07 02:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by zax_fl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is you fiancee that cheated, I definitely wouldn't get married anytime soon. I am not saying it wont work out between you two, we all make mistakes, however you need to wait before getting married and give it plenty of time for him to earn your trust back. Good luck, cheating hurts more than cutting your own heart out! Been there, done that!
2006-11-07 01:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anytime someone cheats, its destroys the relationship... Move on. I know it hurts, and i know others will hurt too... but it is TRULY for the best. Once a cheater... always a cheater and there is NO GOING BACK.
2006-11-07 01:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
As hard as it is, everyone must move on. It will take time but have faith and hang in there.
2006-11-07 01:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i for one know how you feel. i went through it myself a couple of months ago... my father told me "if he does it once he'll do it again...' he proved my father wrong. give the guy another chance if you think he deserves it
2006-11-07 01:33:26 · answer #7 · answered by Tineal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best idea: Move on.
2006-11-07 13:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋