I've been married for almost 6 years now . Why exactly I got married I cann't quite say , I suppose it felt like the right thing . I'm currently in love with another woman who feels the same way (the feeling has always been there +/- 2 years but we admitted it to each other about 6 months ago) . There has been nothing physical between us yet but I fear that it is going to end up that way .
2006-11-07 00:57:31 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes...good for you to realize this. I hope it works out for you.
2006-11-07 03:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so full of doo-doo every time someone wants to cheat they make this crap statement that either they are in a "loveless" marriage or they "dont know why they got married" in the 1st place! As if to insinuate the other person has never been or just always have not been the "one" for you. I n the beginning if you truly did not love her you had the choice to not get married but you did and that speaks volumes! A real MAN doesn't say " I DO" without knowing he is doing the right thing and since you have not said your wife has wronged you leads me to believe that she is not aware of your SUDDEN change of heart, for some reason I am sure and can almost guarantee you have told the new woman all the things your wife doesn't do and she already has a heads up to the blueprint to you, but you mark my words people like you will never be happy because the problem is ALWAYS someone elses you are just the innocent by-stander with your REAL TRUE LOVE waiting in the wings give me a break! Trying to sound sincere so that we will all say"if you truly love her then yes cheat on your wife" I don't think so What you can do for your wife IS RESPECT her enough to tell her that YOU are not MAN enough for her and leave her alone so that she can find someone who truly loves her and sees her worth, what comes around goes around remember that!
2006-11-07 01:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by gd2bhpy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Is possible to love two women at the same time... But That's not very nice. I think you should tell the new person that you can not have a relationship with her. If you meant "is it possible to be MARRIED to two women at the same time" then the answer is yes. You need to be a Muslim , and you need permission from both of them & you also need to treat them equally. Based on the information that you provided, I think you should "break-up" with the new woman. Mainly because you already have a child. Good luck. Make a wise decision
2016-05-22 07:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called lust ... when the physical stuff does happen .. it will subside ....
Then you may realize that you are not in love .. just bored .. it is almost 7 year hitch time ...isn't it..?
I mean ... unless she is dynamite .. which guy (or girl) wouldn't be bored after 6 years.
BTW it is possible to love 2 women ... but probably not to be 'in love' with them both at the same time.
Dr BAd
(i could go on 4ever )
2006-11-07 01:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart only belongs to one woman. If you feel that you are not in love with your wife and do not want to work things out you should just end the marriage because you are committing adultery by having feelings for someone else. And before you make that decision make sure that you are in love and not in LUST because if you end your marriage based on LUST then i am pretty sure that your pride will not allow you to fess up to your mistake to get your wife back. Whatever the outcome is GOOD LUCK!
Remember, is it Lust or Love.
2006-11-07 01:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are going to get a lot of negativity here but here is my opinion. Polyamory does exist, it has to. We don't love each child less when the next one is born, our love expands to fill them both. Why should it be any different for romantic relationships? The tough part would be convincing your wife (women are funny about this, they have been programmed to expect monogamy) but if you feel you can make it work I wish you luck. I wish my wife was willing to go for this, but alas no.
2006-11-07 01:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two fools don't always make a right. Possibly both of you are bored with marriage and just want some excitement. Ask yourself, say self: If I came home and caught my wife boinking the plumber would I be upset?
2006-11-07 01:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by kam_1261 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't figure out why you married your wife, that's messed up. You shouldn't be in love with any other woman. End the potential fling and reignite your passions for the woman you made the lifelong commitment to.
2006-11-07 01:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you love this other woman? It could be that she is one of those very special and rare friends we have once in a lifetime and if you have a sexual relationship, you could blow the friendship and your marriage. I would think long and hard on this. Also, does your wife treat you well? If she does, you need to consider her feelings. Good luck
2006-11-07 02:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by shyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely possible to love two people at the same time.........Because you love them for different reasons......One may be good at paying bills while the other is good in bed or what ever.......You should look at your life and see what it is about each of these women you are needing............We usually pick partners who have something in them we don't have in ourselves.......They complete a part of us and we like it.......It feels nice........So I would say you simply have two women who complete (or complement) you in different ways.........Very normal to feel that way and you should always be honest with your self and follow your heart....
2006-11-07 01:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ashamed to think that there are men who are selfish as you are why did you marry her!Be a man and get a divorce if you loved your wife you wouldn't be thinking of another woman!
2006-11-07 01:02:46 · answer #11 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋