my husband can't sleep unless his sexual needs are met on a daily basis in one form or another. Is there any way to curb this or is it just part of who he is??
2006-11-07 14:29:02 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just who he is. I would recommend giving this to him... or he might seek it else where.... But if you think its just to darn much... I am sure he can sleep... he just prefers to have it... So speak to him.. let him know that your sex drive isn't that great... or seek help for your self. There are supposedly sexual enhancements for girls to improve thier drives..
2006-11-07 14:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by morfusaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there some particular reason why you do not have the same drive as your husband? Id there a medical reason that you do not want your husband often? I work full time and have 2 kids at home and part of helping me relieve the stress of daily life is being wioth my husband. I am the kind of woman who also has a very high sex drive. I wish I could help you out but so far my husband has answered my every call and I him.
2006-11-07 23:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by timidlady2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's young , and if so its a part of who he and every guy his age is in needing sexual release on a daily basis , and if his needs are met he will have a much better day because hes not preoccupied about needing a release . and if you are able to deal with it in a positive way both of you will be much happier , you can also use giving him sex as a way to get him to do things to help you with what ever you need done
2006-11-07 22:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in your husbands shoes, and my husband is in yours! I can't sleep without an orgasm and my husband's sex drive isn't what it used to be. We've compromised, he gives in about once a week and I invested in various toys.
It's just the way I am and I love my husband and would never cheat on him. Try and be understanding towards his needs but at the same time don't sacrifice your comfort level just because you might be afraid of losing him. Maybe give in just a few times more than usual and he'll notice the effort. I did when my husband changed and I really appreciated what he did for me.
2006-11-07 23:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by princessslave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he sleeps better after hes been with you. Sometimes in our minds when we go to bed for the night if we make love to our significant other, we get that relaxing feeling of being wanted and that is also a way to keep us at home.
We will do the right things and be that good husband as long as he has a GREAT woman like you their for him. Whatever you are doing don't stop. I wish my wife was like you.
2006-11-07 23:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your getting off pretty light-no pun intended. There are a few ways to curb his desires....
Point and laugh.
Kick him in the jimmy.
Say this slowly: Dee-vorce La-your
Offer to bring in a girlfriend once or twice a month to "play" if he'll leave you alone the rest of the time.
2006-11-07 22:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to satisfy this and that is through sexual release. If you start giving him the signal that this is a burden for you it will seriously bum him out and you will begin to head down a dangerous path.
Why do so many women not like the fact that their husbands desire their wives? Is that really so bad?
2006-11-08 13:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your husband from the rabbit family?
Sounds like he has that same frombelm with the rabbits....
seriously... there are people who have that inclination nowadays.... i think its better for him to seek an advise from a professional..... think of a psychologist.... this is not an ordinary thing..... he needs some little counseling if it doesnt bother him.. and i think he's affecting your lifestyle with this.... so i hope i an help... but you're in the other side of the planet... so good luck!!!!
2006-11-07 22:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by bugi 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he could masturbate more. or you could figure out a way to lower his testosterone count. Men with more testosterone are more libidinous (they have a higher sex drive). it does need satisfaction but if you arent always into it get him some movies and let his fingers do the walking
2006-11-07 23:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by Myrrhder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More sex seems to help me . While having sex think of your body as an eraser and see if you can erase it off his body after you get it erased it should curd his sex drive
2006-11-07 22:54:38 · answer #10 · answered by dollars2burn4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋