my husband has started acting really odd i keep getting the cold shoulder i cant do right for doing wrong i havent gained weigh or changed my hair nothing he even sleeping on the couch and hes stopped taking our son out with him at weekends or go shopping with me and he isnt answering his phone to me he rings me back instead accussing me of cheaking up on him am not i usually just need something bringing in
2006-11-07 07:13:11 · 17 answers · asked by maymae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he has a guilty consince
2006-11-07 07:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by R C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think he's cheating. Guys who are cheating usually go to great lengths to pretend everything's normal (that is, unless a breakup is imminent, then they don't care). He's probably just depressed or needs some time to brood. Guys generally don't feel like talking when they're upset, so if you keep asking him "what's wrong" or "what did i do?", he'll stay upset. Let him know that you're there if he needs to talk and then go about your daily life for a few days. This should give him a chance to resolve within himself whatever is bothering him.
2006-11-07 08:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by SparklesGrrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on the info provided I would say something isnt right there. You already know this... You have to make a decision- is it ok for him to be distant and childish, like removing himself from the marital bed, or will you put a foot down and tell him he talks about it or moves out. Men can be so fickle...
2006-11-07 07:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by jeweledfruit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you say.. I would tend to think he has another women. If he is accusing you of checking up on him... it's cause you need to be and he is guilty of something. Sleeping on the couch and not taking your son with him on weekends is a very good indication that what he is up to.
2006-11-07 07:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound a little to defensive to me...as far as the checking up on him part...if you didn't before I would start now. If you really want to know the truth that is!
2006-11-07 07:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by thegoodwitchmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the relationship is over.
2006-11-07 07:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating. Find an escape plan for yourself or put an end to this affair and get your marriage back.
2006-11-07 07:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...wow.. maybe hes seeing someone else or in love with someone else.. but dont panic.. u should check where he works..and ask his freinds and just do ur own little expedition. or maybe hes just having a hard time over somethign and its just a temporary phase
2006-11-07 07:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is not happy for some reason, you might want to talk to him seriously.
2006-11-07 07:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a cheater. tell him to grow up and come back to his family . he needs to make a decision becuae there is no reason you should be treated like that
2006-11-07 07:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋