My boyfriend of 6 months who is a doctor tells me loves me all the time. He has taken me on many trips and we have a lot in common like best friends. However, he likes to get high on several differnt types of drugs and diump me and go out to clubs and hit on girls. When he comes off his high he wants to get back with me and promises he' s never cheated but I seriously don't believe him. He's out of the country right now but I'm thinking I should break it off when he returns next week for good. Need advice.
2006-11-07 08:53:12 · 14 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think you already know this answer. i bet your gut is telling you to leave hima nd find someone else who can treat you the way you want to be treated.
if you want to take revenge and make him feel like he has made you feel... then play his game. you go out and do your own thing and make it seem like you forgot about calling him or haning out with him because you were with friends or were enjoying yourself. make it seem so that youre very nonchalant about your relationship with him. he'll start feeling like crap and be suspicious.
and when he gets the guts to step up to you and confront you, that's when the real you comes out and puts him in his place. tell him that you dont like what he does to do and how he makes you feel. tell him that youre not going to sit around all the time waiting on him to come down from a high. tell him that you dont have time to waste cuz your livin life!
stop being the quiet one to never voice out something. that's how people willtake advantage of you.
goodluck. best wishes.
2006-11-07 09:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A doctor on drugs? {{shaking head}} You should report him to the medical society, not be worrying about whether or not he's shacking up with some easy chicks.
I think you know the answer to your question. He promises, but then he renigs on his promise. So, in other words, he does what he wants and then convinces you to take him back regardless.
He's not a wanna-be player; he IS a player and he's playing you.
2006-11-07 17:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by servinggodalone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off, he's no good. Regardless if he's under the influence or not, he shouldn't be breaking up with you to flirt with other women then ask you back out. You shouldn't allow yourself to be in that predicament because it will only hurt you worse. Stay away from this man, his only priority and obligation is himself.
2006-11-07 17:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to definitely get rid of this dude. he seems like he uses this "high" excuse, just to go out with other girls. Hes a straight up dog foreal foreal. you need a real man who will appreciate you and want to be with you, high or not. What the hell? Get rid of that dude foreal. You can definitely do better and you deserve better.
2006-11-07 17:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're like a toy and he takes you out of the toy box every once in a while to play with you and puts you back when he sees something else he wants to do.
You're a woman.....move one.
2006-11-07 17:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him being a player is your least worry! Girl you need to dump your crackhead!
2006-11-07 17:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by KimmeD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would've dumped him by now. I wouldn't want to stay with someone who only wants to be with me when it's convenient for him.
2006-11-07 17:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do yourself a favour, and break it off. Your relationship with this doctor is not a healthy one. He is using you. Don't you think you deserve better than this? Your guy sounds like a loser.
2006-11-07 17:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl dump that wanna be player..Don't have all that stress in your life..
2006-11-07 17:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Hey Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should run while you have the choice before he gets to you girl!
2006-11-07 17:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by lil_mama69smokie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋