How can i get rid of my husband ?I told him to go but he never does.Can you help???

Answer 1

Do you really want rid of him or is it just something you say in an argument? You need to be more specific about the situation then we can help

Answer 2

Maybe your husband needs a little pill to chill him out. Sick kid, sick dog, gets on everyone's nerves, but it's no excuse to yell at the poor kid. I suggest making a shelter for the dog outside if possible, if you have a backyard or a back porch he could sleep on, once it's not too cold where you are. Also see about getting some type of sleep-aid for your baby, like a tape of relaxing sounds or something of that nature. Put him down and you and your husband sit down and relax in peace and quiet. Well maybe with the muffled sound of a heartbeat or waves from the kids room and distant flapping of dog ears but you get the point. I hope there's nothing seriously wrong with the baby, and the dog gets better soon too. Remind your husband that the ear infection isn't forever and if the meds are working it should be over soon. Peace.

Answer 3

well i had this problem with my first husband...eventually he left one day to go to work and he had packed some stuff ..we had agreed that he would go to his sisters...i went out and left him there packing and said id be back when he'd left...when i got back he'd taken a few bits but had unpacked all his 'bathroom stuff and put it back in the bathroom..i decided that was it and i packed up everything i could find, put it into black sacks...put it outside the door,had the locks changed and then phoned him and told him he had better come and get his stuff before the dustmen collected it...job done...ive never looked back and actually we are good mates now...no romantic connection whatsoever, i was really young when we got married and the best thing we ever did together was get divorced,lol...good luck with it ;0)

Answer 4

If he's not leaving, maybe it's you who needs to make the move. If he's happy with the situation as it is and he loves you, he's not going to just go without a fight. He'll stay at home and put up with anything just to maintain the status quo.

If you want out, the only way to make him listen is by positive action. Tell him you're leaving and go. At least he'll realise you are serious.

Answer 5

Then you leave. Just get yourself together and go. If you really want out, you will find a way to get it done. Waiting on your husband is no reason not to take decisive action.

Answer 6

Forgive my asking,but in a previous post,you intimated that your hubby had cancer-and that you cared for him very much-is he still suffering this cancer,or is he on the mend now?Why do you want to be rid of him a month down the line-is this just a tiff between the two of you then?-i'm confused:-/

Answer 7

if you truly want him to leave you need to take a legal stand to this. You need to seek a lawyer and first file for a divorce, once he's been served with papers then you need to file a restraining order where he has to stay so many feel away from your house. Then the divorce court order will proceed as intended.

Answer 8

it took me over 5 years to get the point across to my husband. i filed for a divorce, and moved out while he was at work. thats how you do it. butttttt, you better be sure that is what you want. because now im living alone, raising kids all by my self, and its scary at night. i miss him, but my kids are not around him fignting with me and hitting on me any more, i think that its all worth the sacrifice. good luck to you girl.

Answer 9

1. Buy a pet skunk and aggravate it
2. Join a zealous feminist group and have All the get-togethers at your house
3. Sign him up for square dance lessons so you can work on the relationship
4. Invite your Mom to come and live with you forever

Answer 10

I find that asking him to put the bin out is a simple yet cunning ruse which often works - if not permanently, for weeks at a time. He does it so infrequently, he has to be reminded quite often, and when he does, he quite often gets lost, cannot find either the main bin or the recycling bin (especially after my rotten neighbours have been mixing them up) and he is gone for hours - enabling me time to have a glass of champagne, bath, bit of pampering, and a long suggestive phone call with one of my over sexed boyfriends :))