2006-11-07 09:50:13 · 11 answers · asked by legalsecretary27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Something Specially
For You
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all.
2006-11-07 09:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends why you left him .Apparently you must loved him a lot .So he must not have been treating you right or was abusive .Its a hard decision to make to leave some one you love because they continue to treat you bad . It takes time to heal the more you love someone the longer it takes and the harder it is . I respect yopu for having enough self respect to leave . I think its supposed to hurt so much so you remember before you jump into another relationship what can happen .Alot of it is changing your complete routine in life and sleeping by yourself after you have gotten used to him being there all the time .Insecure ,not knowing what the future will bring But in time slowly you will heal up and one day you will realize how much happier you are and like being independent and looking back wont believe you put up with being treated that way as long as you did .But I know how hard it is to see rigt now
2006-11-07 23:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by dollars2burn4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you gave us no information as to why you left your husband, so we can say if you did the right thing or not, we have nothing to make a judgement call on. as for the pain, it will heal in time as you discover and create a new world for yourself. its normal to feel heart acke after living with another for a period of time, even worse when you really cant understand why it turned out they way it did. we all need closer to be able to move on, in most cases there is no closure because the answers are so entwined with everything that it really does not make sense. if your divorce happend quickly or is going to to. the second thoughts will play in your mind, adding to your discomfort. Remember and believe inside that you made the best choices at the time based with the knowledge you had at the time.
2006-11-07 18:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by redsyoungstud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you know why you left him but I can tell you this much it will stop each week that goes by and he will start to get ugly in more way then you can think. But then again their is so much there we do not know like did you try some counselling or did he cheat on you. But time will heel all. Good luck I have been there too it does get better and give yourself time to heal before you find someone else.
2006-11-07 18:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh that HORRIBLE feeling!!! No one person can tell YOU how to get rid of that pain, all you can do is try really hard to just move on! And as for leaving your husband we don't know the situation you were in, so we also have no place to tell you yes or no....just keep your head up and give it time....Best of luck!!
2006-11-07 17:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it one day at a time. Nothing anyone could say will make you feel any better. The day will come however when you start feeling a little better about things. Try to keep busy. Get a new hobby.
2006-11-07 17:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask yourself why you left him. write the bad things down' about him and a list of good things about him .if the bad things about him out weigh the good things then you did the right thing.as for the pain that will hurt for a long time ; get some counseling that may help.
2006-11-07 18:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by deedee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way. After everything I had to put up with and take in an eight year abusive relationship, I was concerned about his feelings. I began to look at my life as it was before him and how happy I was. Then I began to look at life at how great it was now going to be. Also, family really pulled me up by the boot straps and kept me going.
2006-11-07 19:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by ba374 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hurt will go away in time. Yes, you did the right thing. Give yourself time to heal. Find another hobby to take your mind off of it.
2006-11-07 17:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife left but I dont think there is any pain.Its not wrong to still care a little.It means you have a heart.
2006-11-07 17:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋