Please tell me what do do? I love them both and I told them this, I told my pregnant wife I will dump my girlfriend once she's back to looking the way she was before being pregnant, but she insists I be her only lover and cannot stand my girlfriend who is way better looking than her.
2006-11-07 06:34:16 · 18 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honey - if I was your wife, I wouldn't want you back after pregnancy .... actually you could leave now. Hope girlfriend is willing to take in a low-bellied, shallow dog.
Seems appearances are far too high on your shallow list of standards.
2006-11-07 06:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by girlielikesfun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are wrong for finding a girlfriend just because your wife is pregnant. When all women are pregnant YES they are going to gain a few pounds. But if you like it or not does not give you the right to go out to find a girlfriend just because your wife is pregnant. You married her for all the right reasons and being pregnant with your child is one of the all right reasons and your just going to have to accept that. I myself love stocky women. I find them very sexy. And you too need too look beyond the stream and look into the ocean because if I was your wife knowing you had a girlfriend because I was pregnant I would definitely kick you both to the curb. You need to be there for your wife not for your girlfriend. Love your wife not your girlfriend. Show some pride!!!! and not towards your girlfriend either!
2006-11-07 06:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First your wife needs to dump you, no matter if she is pregnant. You are not worth the hassle.
Second you moran you took vowels to Love her and take her for better and worest. This includes on her looks. What the Heck did you marry her for if you where going to cheat on her AFTER U got her pregnant. YOUR FAULT. You must be one of the brainless ones I have heard about all my life.
2006-11-07 07:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Angell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight, your dating an 18 year old, and will get back with your wife if she looks 'okay'. If thats your kid whats wrong with you? SO what if the kid comes out not good looking, are you going to say to change your apperance. Think past the good looks a little guy
2006-11-07 06:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife should dump you, clearly she could do much better. Your cheating on her because her figured changed due to the fact you impregnated her. Shame on you its clear you care too much about appearances. Peoples bodies change if you truly loved your wife it wouldn’t matter. It could take months to get ones pre pregnancy body back, some don’t ever get it back.
2006-11-07 09:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound really dumb--come on, your wife only "looks bad" because she is pregnant, and remind your sorry butt that she did not get pregnant on her own---you need to get a life and make up your mind, because no woman looks like her old self when she is pregnant, and sometimes it takes months to get the weight off and get her shape back---you sound really shallow!
2006-11-07 06:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you're something special, don't you? Why don't you do them both a favor and jump off a cliff? You are the poorest excuse for a man that ever heard of.
2006-11-07 07:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by pat k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a similar problem only the gf wanted to kill the wife. they're both cool with it now though. if i were to do it over, my next gf would be married just to avoid such conflicts.
2006-11-07 06:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God! If you seriously think that she is going to kill and this is not a hyperbole, I would alert the authorities.
Yes, cheating is wrong, but you have to decide for yourself what is right. Murder is never an answer.
Good luck to all.
2006-11-07 06:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by LadeeBug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a total idiot. I hope your preg wife finds a man better looking than u and never talks to u again.
2006-11-07 06:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋