My husband and I started swinging with other couples and single women and I think I prefer women now over men. I still love him alot but I prefer a womans touch to a mans now. What should I do? We've been married 6 years and I LOVE him dearly but getting busy with women REALLY does it for me now. We have no kids.
2006-11-07 06:28:25 · 10 answers · asked by SallyBoBally 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Darling,
All women are more attracted to women then men. It's either God, Society, or their own internal guilt that keeps them from following up. Even the girl above that says god bless you... She really means that... but shes wanted it from girls too. We are nicer, prettier, and smell better. IS this a reason to give up a marriage to a good guy who you love, who is OBVIOUSLY letting you experiment (and vice versa)??? Most of the people here know the real answer and they are jealous. It is this:
You have the ideal relationship! Hang on to him and don't let go, cause he LET"S YOU @#$% OTHER WOMEN. That's hot and we both know it. I'm sure you have been with other guys in front of him as well. That means your man is most likely VERY endowed or VERY confident not to lose you to anyone else and again.. vice versa. Don't lose that relationship over some Pu$$. Live it, Love it, and let the good times roll.
Just my thoughts ;) oh... call me :P we're down like that too and its GREAT!
2006-11-07 06:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Magdalane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why you are not supposed to go outside your marriage in reguards to sex. It creates all sorts of problems, INCLUDING that you may find yourself more satisfied with other people then your spouse. Look at it like this: Right not (hopefully) you do not use herion or crack. But if you try it, you may find that you really enjoy it much more then life without it. Does this mean that you should become a drug addict? Just because it feels good doesn't mean its good for you. You need to remove yourself from this lifestyle for a while, and concentrate on your relationship with your husband. When you first got into swinging, I'm sure you must've agreed that if it is not helping your relationship, then you should back out. If you did not make this agreement, it would be a good time to reconsider what you are jeapordizing. You have a serious choice to make, whether or not you are going to put more value in what feels good to you or the committment you made before God and your friends and family. God bless you and may he help you make the right decision.
2006-11-07 14:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the issue is only the sex with women that you are attracted to then there really isn't a problem. The problem would be if you were tempted to start full fledged relationships with the women. I would discuss with him the idea that you feel sexually drawn more to women. Give it a little time. You might grow tired of the drama that women normally have....
2006-11-07 14:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by goldenlifev 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since you like the swinging thing, just have a women present at all love making sessions between you and hubby. men like to watch that anyway so everyone wins.
2006-11-07 14:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tie him up and gag him so he keeps quiet. then bang another woman in front of him. maybe put a blindfold on him so he can only hear you.
He will be rock hard and having a good time but he'll be horney as hell later. you might have to let him have you. or get your girlfirend to use her hand to whack him off. LOL!!
2006-11-07 14:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No kids?? well maybe you shouldn't crossed that line cause now you'll find yourself wanting to be w/women. Call me
2006-11-07 14:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by carmella.2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send me the videos and let me watch you on cam. then I'll make my judgment. Without the appropriate research, how do you expect me to give you inaccurate advice?
2006-11-07 14:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your juices!
It sounds as though you have a rather open relationship anyway, party on!
2006-11-07 14:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Feelgood 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cut your ties now and move on, and you can thank him for your new found hobby.
2006-11-07 14:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by Diamond in the Rough 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where do u live? im a single girl into stuff like dat
2006-11-07 14:32:56 · answer #10 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋