Muslim women please:?

Question

Please try not to be judgemental. I have fallen in love with a muslim man who is married with two kids. I have known him 6 years now and have been sleeping with him for three of these years...... there are times when I get confused.... because he mumbled a little prayer before the first time consummation occurred and he as asked me many of the questions it's good to ask when you're considering marrying someone, including how much money do I require to live each month... these things make me think he wants something more......

then out of nowhere he suddenly does not want me to call him..... he does not come over as often...... he is going to move his family to another country for a year or two...... his wife is suddenly upset when my name is mentioned.. or I talk to him. I feel as though he is cutting me out of his life......he says he does not want to hurt either of us and he will explain it all at a later date?
What do you think about this situation?

he ended up not moving..... and continues to talk with me.... we are both agreed to no more sex

Answer 1

i cant comment on the question but the one who answered and calls herself sugar...honey you just made a fool of yourself! you sound like some programmed stepford wife! you sound insane! not an american are you sugar? because if you were i know ten women that would be beating your a*ss down right now for the way you set the womens rights movement back to the stone age! thank God the immigration laws are getting tougher...the last thing this country would need is a woman like you! the women here dont take any crap like this from a man regardless of his so called "religion"

Answer 2

I am not muslim and thank my God. Why are you doing this to yourself are you muslim??? He is who he is deep down you know whats going on he has had his fun and now he wants to go back to his wife, why do you think his wife is upset when she hears your name probably the same reason you are upset, or are you in a weird situation where the king ding a ling can have as many wifes as he wants thats not fair, imagine if his wife was getting some on the side he would probably be upset also!!

Answer 3

i guess muslim guys can marry up to 4 wives and might have been considered you to be his second wife thats why he asked you many questions as if he is preparing to get married with you, however, i could never guess what happened along the way, perhaps he changed his mind....nevertheless, take the situation as a blessing, it means he does not really love you that much, i know this may hurt you but try to move on....

Answer 4

i am a muslim n right now i feel like kicking his butts for commiting a sin like this. how can he go through a relationship like this with two kids. even if he didn't like his wife n fell for u didn't he think of his children for once. n same goes for u when u knew he is married n has kids why did u sleep with him. couldn't u find someone else,single to be precise? not only he cheated his family u cheated them as well. u can find someone for your self but his wife cant as a muslim she has to live with him till death if she was alone she could have taken a divorce but with two kids she cant even think about it. her relationship is at a stake coz of u no wonder she gets upset when your name is mentioned. take my advice let him go coz he is a flirt he'll find some new chick to u know what. i pitty his wife poor soul.

Answer 5

Being a guy or woman qualified in Islamic study, i might % to describe that Muslim females are exempted from religious responsibilities throughout the time of the menstruation. This rule easily relieves females from having to maintain the 5 daily prayers, fasting and different responsibilities mutually as she is interior the uncomfortable actual difficulty of menstruation. How can one think of a girl being asked to rapid in this occasion? i'd desire to make sparkling, in spite of the undeniable fact that, that some human beings generalize and limit all kinds of "prayers". The ritual prayer in Islam is named "salat" and it ought to be completed 5 situations an afternoon in a undeniable way. This "salat" isn't required from females throughout their menstruation. The English word "prayer" is extra well-known than the Islamic "salat", and can contain different kinds of prayers like the supplication that one does any time of the day, and with no need to do the rituals of the Islamic "salat". this type of prayers isn't prohibited for females. In different words, menstruating females can save praying to God, conversing to Him, praising Him, inquiring for His love and forgiveness, yet without doing it in a ritual "salat." The "submission" website isn't an Islamic website. It belongs to a sect that replaced into created via "Rashad Khalifa", a Christian Egyptian who claimed that he replaced into Muslim, then made a good sized exposure a pair of fake discovery called the "numerical miracle of the Quran". interior the comparable e book he claimed that he defined the coolest date of the top of the international, which completely contradicts what the Quran and the Sunna pontificate. Later his certainty replaced into got here upon. He additionally claimed that the Sunnah isn't part of Islamic regulation and that we don't would desire to stay with it, so as this is why his sect is surely exterior Islam. desire this makes issues sparkling. Salaam-peace.

Answer 6

no matter muslim or not, this is CHEATING
no he doesnt want to divorce his wife to be with you, he never will... you are ONLY the "other woman" here, and you need to get away from this relationship before something bad happens
his wife is MAKING him move and he is GOING...
let him go, and pray about this!

Answer 7

at a later date when he and his wife has smoothened things out between them and you must have already moved on or he's somewhere where you can't find him and there'd be no chance he'll be explaining things to you anymore. he wants to cut ties with you. he doesn't want to hurt either of you but given a choice, you'll be the one he'd rather hurt. please, please move on and give yourself a better chance to be happy

Answer 8

you are creating your own problem. you are considered an adulteress too because he is married. you are digging your own pit to burry yourself. that is false happiness. its a lie, there is no inner peace in that, that is not love. you are deceived by yourself. i suggest you go to a pastor, many pastor for different ways of advises.

Answer 9

never marry a muslim. after you marry only you realize the mistake you have done. true for everyone! for them, woman is only for sex and to get children. never get deceived.

Answer 10

maybe his wife found out?? I don't know. he is married, dumbass. he should've cut you out of his life a long time ago.