2006-11-07 21:06:28 · 11 answers · asked by rattan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi Ratan,
Couple start taking each other for granted when they reach that stage or they are in that comfort zone where they start feeling that even if something is not done by them the other will automatically take care of the same. They become lazy cause they know that the other person is always there to take care of things.
The best way to overcome this kind of frustration is that the partner must sit and have a long talk. They should thank her/ him when they do something for you. Surprise them on and off with gifts or just cooking up a great meal. Making your spouse feel special and loved. and Last but not the least, there is no single recipe for marital success.
Novelist John Berger once said, "All weddings are similar, but all marriages are different." Every couple must find their own formula. So Go on and make your own!
So Good Luck and God Bless
2006-11-07 21:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there comes a point where after you have been with someone long enough that you don't notice when they are doing things for you anymore. you expect that they will just continue to always do these things for you. but then something happens, working late hours a buisness trip oppisite work scheduals and you realize that they aren't there for whatever reason and then you wonder what you would do without them and you re-gain your sense of apprication. at least thats how it is with real love
2006-11-08 05:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just people being people, but if they truly love one another, it's only temporary because one or the other comes around and breaks the ice. suddenly it's romance all over again and better each time.........true love never ends, unless someone dies.......
2006-11-08 05:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have gotten too comfortable and so used to each other that they feel they don't need to try as hard as they did before.
2006-11-08 05:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Leila G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not being taken for granted, its called TRUST, your at the point in your lifes that you trust each other, you know each one loves the other and can be trusted when apart
2006-11-08 05:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave aside possesiveness, things will be rosy again.
2006-11-08 05:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by dash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it, Its another face of possesiveness!
2006-11-09 08:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by swifthorse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply because they love each other.
2006-11-10 11:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by Krishna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cuz they are too comfortable wid each other
2006-11-08 06:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they allow it..
2006-11-08 05:12:57 · answer #10 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋