If you thought your man might be cheating....throw flour on the ground at your doorsteps and parking spots to see if anyone came in your appartment while you were at work?
Or would that be over obsessing?
2006-11-07 20:46:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am broke...flour is cheap!
2006-11-07 20:51:48 · update #1
You work third shift 9pm-5am no one should be coming to your house that late.
All of his family and friends live 4 hours or 8 states away!
2006-11-07 20:54:45 · update #2
No that sounds like something I would do. Thanks for the great advice. Might try it one day.
2006-11-07 20:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by rach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They would see the flour, or what if it was the mail delievery woman or some delivery person that walked in it. You need a private investigator or a spy camera.
Oh hey, the best thing to do would be to tell him you are going out of town and then borrow a friend's car and watch him. But be careful because things can get tricky if he starts asking questions about where you are.
2006-11-08 04:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by jacksfullhouse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're this convinced, don't bother, just toss the loser. That being said, suppose you do throw flour on the ground, who's to say that someone coming to the door doesn't have a totally legitimate reason for being there (the mailman, the UPS driver, the cable guy, the local kids selling stuff for their next band trip)?
2006-11-08 04:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If there are real signs ask him. The flour thing sounds a little crazy. Don't be paranoid you'll make yourself question everything he does and that wouldn't be much fun.
2006-11-08 04:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by dakota29575 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about putting a tooth pick in the door jam when you leave if the tooth pick is on the ground the truth as bin found
2006-11-08 04:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by Normefoo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
throw flour on your doorstep? thats quite possibly one of the worst, most out there ideas to find out if your man was cheating. What if some jehovah witnesses came to the door or people just tried to avoid the spot cause it was dirty, or what if your husband was like wtf? and swept it up.
2006-11-08 04:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No it wouldn't be obsessing but it would be quite obvious that you're trying to find out don't u think?
2006-11-08 04:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i thought my man were cheating i would do whatever i had to do to find out for sure
2006-11-08 04:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by hippie_chick69love 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow i think that maybe you are going over board if you cant trust him then why be with him
2006-11-08 04:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That sounds good to me !
2006-11-08 10:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by rhonda h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋