She didn't tell anyone, but my husband found out from his mom, should i get her a present or send her a card?
2006-11-07 23:28:42 · 13 answers · asked by sunflower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Now that you know ,you should !!
2006-11-07 23:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by IloveMarmite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you found out by means other than from the bride and groom, send them a card but don't send a gift. They probably got married in secret so they could forego all the trappings of a wedding, including gifts and thank you note writing. Just send them a card with your sincerest congratulations.
2006-11-08 07:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cousin of mine did the same thing. When I saw them I wished them the best and told them I'd like to get them something special, what store did they like? or china etc...They said don't worry about it, so I sent them a 100 or 200(forget) how much to their favorite restaurant. They enjoyed!!! but this is your close family , so I would do the phone call, asap instead of just waiting till the family get's together again. And respect there privacy, don't be asking why they didn't tell, just say how romantic and leave it at that,you don't know there reasons.....
2006-11-08 08:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends why she didnt tell anyone...does she not want anyone to know? If that is the case, no I wouldnt send a gift until SHE told you about getting married. But if it isnt a big deal, and she doesnt care that you know then by all means send her a gift.
2006-11-08 07:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can get her a card for now and when you see her in person get her a nice wedding present. She will find out that the secret has been revealed anyway.
2006-11-08 08:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, send her and the groom a gift and card congratulating them.
2006-11-08 07:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
las vegas----wow''''send them a present and a card!
2006-11-08 07:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stress about it. If you want to, get them a present. If not, don't.
2006-11-08 07:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not? - If your not angry that she got married then what is the problem?>
2006-11-08 07:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good idea.
2006-11-08 07:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by notProudatAll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋