Marriage & Divorce - 5 November 2006

I got married at 15 to a 25 y/o mexican, Im now 21 we have been together 5 years and in the first year he applied for his green card there were some problems with the first attorney so we got another and now his green card is a few months away and we are having serious problems they started the 2 year but just got worse as time went by I have left once and he called me crying saying he would change but it has not happened so I want to know do i stay til he gets his green card or do I leave before We have 2 kids but he does not take up time with them and he has sent tons of money to his family and the bank accounts here are pretty much empty so I want get to much If i leave he told he the other night he did not think we would moke it so i started packing my things we had a fight also about money he was complaning about bills so the point is he says 1 thing 1 min and another the next after he fusses about bills of money he says I LOVE YOU, etc. so what am i suppose to believe?

2006-11-05 01:01:28 · 21 answers · asked by ncgirl 1

they live in 1192 park avenue new york N.Y. 10128...
they have two sons...

2006-11-05 00:54:38 · 2 answers · asked by mcdo 1

2006-11-05 00:52:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my partner gets home from work...the first thing he go to when in come into the front door is his computer. He spends up to 6 hrs a day, 7days a week =42hours....The only time I see him is when I'm making dinner and when we go to bed. I dont mind him playing games on computer but I feel leftout. If you wondering how I got time doing this...I told him I want to check me emails.....so what you folks think?

2006-11-05 00:50:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 00:39:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ask so many questions about women and sex and it boils down to this...

Just for the sake of argument... assume that a man is good in bed and he meets his wives needs... he cleans, cooks, pays the bills, works hard, is very emotionally attentive, good in bed, well hung( I add this because women mention it) and good looking... but his wife still doesn't care to meet his needs sexually. What then???

I earn have earned 90% of the income. I have done at least 50% of the household duties... even the kids say they can't count on her for being a good Mom. She cheated on me while I worked 80+ hours a week because she was too good to be a checker at Walmart and help provide. Honest, folks... those were her words... 'Too good to be a checker at Walmart'. I would think that her kids were worth any job... maybe it's just me.

I hear this story over and over... now she isn't sexual at all... it's like she litterally CAN'T do more than one thing in life at a time... explain this to me.

2006-11-05 00:33:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

hez blaming me.last nite after all this (when i found out that he has been tellin his mom everythin we alked about and also that he told her that he had loved me and given me importance and time that has spoiled me and now im complaning if hez not givin me time)i called him he wa busy and told me hat he'll call me bak.i waited but he nvr called.aftter 14 hrs i called him and asked y didnt he called and he started blaming me and said that i dun care about him.i was so sad that i started cryin:( i dun care..when i have spent so many nites jus waitin for him to talk to me.i do everythin possible in r long distance relationhip.seems like hez no more interested in me.coz if he wud have been he wud have tried to make me fel better coz he knew i was v sad and depress.plz tell me wat can i do?im so lost..i dunno wat to say and what to do now?u can read my previous question to know what really happened.i wud appreciate ur help.thx

2006-11-05 00:24:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in love with someone who used to be a sex addict. He has had sex with over 300 women in his lifetime, seen prostitutes and at one time he cheated on his girlfriend by having sex with 3 to 4 different women a week for hire from Craiglist. He has had sex with shemales and gone to sex clubs. He is a charmer picked up women at bars and at work and on the subway. He still surfs pornography on a regular basis. Since meeting me, he has gone to therapy and say s that both our relationship and his love for me have changed his life. He vows never to cheat and claims that he realizes that easy sex was a way to fill an emptiness he didn’t know he felt at the time. He wants us to marry me and have children. I adore him, the sex is amazing and he knows me better than anyone but I am afraid to be overly optimistic about his ability to change. I dont know if I should pursue this relationship.

2006-11-05 00:23:28 · 22 answers · asked by CCalias 1

2006-11-05 00:14:06 · 42 answers · asked by sweet shaan 1