hez blaming me.last nite after all this (when i found out that he has been tellin his mom everythin we alked about and also that he told her that he had loved me and given me importance and time that has spoiled me and now im complaning if hez not givin me time)i called him he wa busy and told me hat he'll call me bak.i waited but he nvr called.aftter 14 hrs i called him and asked y didnt he called and he started blaming me and said that i dun care about him.i was so sad that i started cryin:( i dun care..when i have spent so many nites jus waitin for him to talk to me.i do everythin possible in r long distance relationhip.seems like hez no more interested in me.coz if he wud have been he wud have tried to make me fel better coz he knew i was v sad and depress.plz tell me wat can i do?im so lost..i dunno wat to say and what to do now?u can read my previous question to know what really happened.i wud appreciate ur help.thx
2006-11-05 00:24:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
stop the damn boohooing and get on with your life
2006-11-05 00:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if he wants out.
This is a long distance relationship, so he may get into trouble at home for spending to much time/money on the phone, this is especially true if his Mom or Dad need the phone for business, or they don't have a lot of money. You obviously have access to a computer, does he? If he does, why don't you chat or talk over the Internet. If either of you only have dial up you can still chat using Yahoo IM or MSN.
Another reason might be he's not quite the right person for you. If you spend nights waiting for him to call or he says he will ring and he doesn't, it may (note the "may") mean you aren't the most important person in his life.
The fact he blamed you means two things: 1) He's already told you several times there was a problem calling you, e.g. Dad complains a lot about the phone bill, and you didn't listen; or 2) He doesn't want to continue the relationship.
I'd suggest you go out do some other things with some friends. If he is serious about this then let him show it with actions, not words. If his actions don't match up to his words then find a new bf.
2006-11-05 00:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by Bad bus driving wolf 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get rid of the mommas boy, and learn to communicate a little more effectively. Girl, I had to read this 4 times before I understood it. If your communication level is this low on here, chances are IRL, you don't communicate effectively either. That could be the problem. Unless you're 12, you shouldn't be writing or talking like this. If you are 12, you shouldn't be worried about a boy anyway.
2006-11-05 01:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by shojo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart i in my opinion think of telling your mum is the best wager. she would be in a position to no longer kill you. the only reason she would be in a position to fly in to a rage is with the help of the fact some boy made her beautyful daughter lined in cuts and bruises. she would be in a position to no longer kill you. She loves you very lots and he or she cant stand to work out each and all of the attempt and love she put in to you erased via a stupid boy. in case you cant tell your mum ought to you tell a instructor or the college councellor. in case you're somewhat terrified of telling your mum you ought to declare to the councellor that this has have been given to be saved interior the strictest self assurance. i'm so disillusioned that it somewhat is occurring to you on account which you sound such as you're a good looking good guy or woman. additionally attempt to locate an extra curricular activity like self defence and which will kick this boy in to the touch. yet i in my opinion think of you will desire to tell your mom because of the fact I have little question she loves you and needs basically the coolest for you. Please let us know the variety you get on. ((((((((hugs))))))
2016-10-21 07:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just picking fights with you, not calling you, etc... because he doesn't want to be with you.
P.S. a little advice, you talk how you write...there could be a communication problem.
2006-11-05 00:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by blueeyeskenai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you hook up with a man or a Mommy's boy? Tell that fool if he need to talk about y'all problems to see priest or a counselor, and to keep his momma out of y'all bedroom.
2006-11-05 00:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's not worth crying over. His mother did a bad bang up job raising him.
2006-11-05 01:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is a mama's boy. he will follow every advice his momma gives him. if you can't deal with that then it's probably best to leave him alone.
2006-11-05 00:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, 1st, find someone else. If he's a mama's boy, you don't need him anyway. 2nd, buy a dictionary.
2006-11-05 00:30:41 · answer #9 · answered by heatherbee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break up with him. He's a loser and why is he telling his mom about your relationship?! That's really weird.
2006-11-05 00:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by .:Blair:. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋