Marriage & Divorce - 5 November 2006

2006-11-05 17:10:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today is his day off he works 4 days a week, 3 off . Its now 12:05am and he's been watching movies since 10:am (14hrs.)he does this everyday off. he's either watching movies all day, or on the internet all day and doesnt like any disturbance.He doesnt go anywhere with me and the baby. He doesnt do anything around the house on his days off, just sit there and ask me to cook for him twice a day. He gets so mad if me and the baby goes in the living room playing or making any noice. I get ignored all day everyday and i do everything alone. The only way he interacts with me is sometimes he'll come where im at and grab my boobs, or my butt......but no conversation, no nothing.All sexual...What could this be? Its been like this everysince we've had the baby. Shes almost a year old. I've asked him many times to go to counseling with me but he says we can't afford it. He keeps saying he's leaving when he gets enough money, never happens. I have to beg him to take out the trash.

2006-11-05 17:06:46 · 11 answers · asked by Kristi A 4

I need to leave my abusive husband. He is horrible. calls me names and puts me down and is just sick with the way he treats me. I want to go live with my mom and take our two small kids with me of course. I feel so bad for my kids because they love their father despite his actions. I feel so much turmoil inside. I know it's worst for them to grow up in an abusive home but they will be sad either way. I feel so terrible that my dream of living happily ever after has failed. I am not perfect but I don't do anything to warrant his behavior. He is sick. Even counseling isn't working for him. I want to live happily and peacefully. Please help!

2006-11-05 17:00:38 · 29 answers · asked by Veronique 3

okay, i was playing with my husbands cell phone today and i saw soemone callnig in i asked him about it and he said he didnt know so i text messaged the number and asked who it was and todl them i was him well the person said they were jose his best friend which is a guy ok so why would he say he dont know his best friends phone number?? this person wanted to know who i was before they would answer me........also he has been hangnig out over there more and more lately gettin off work at 1215 and gettin home between 1230-130 wat is he doing?? so see i am just wondering wat i should do now also the phone number is a cell

2006-11-05 16:54:00 · 10 answers · asked by mommyof3 3

I am a muslim and in love with my hindu partner.so many people have argued with me not to marry him cos of the religious differences we may encounter in future as they say .well i believe that love is the supreme....no religion can limit it...accually god himself is love ,so the only way to reach him is to love humanbeings...what do u say?

2006-11-05 16:51:47 · 13 answers · asked by angelnathanaeel 1

i have a great husband and we have 3 children we have been together for 10 years. i was 16 and he was 17 when we hooked up. the thing is i dont feel happy and i feel there is no connection anymore. i care for him deeply but not inlove anymore. i feel that we settled way too early and its catching up and i feel its going to tear our family apart. do i try block this out like i have the last few years and keep trying or do i call it quits for good.

2006-11-05 16:35:27 · 18 answers · asked by lesley d 1

Well my friend ( we aren't in a relationship) and his wife got a divorce two years ago. However, I never talked with him about what happend. Now he has custody of his two children and his step daughter. During this past summer he took the kids to practice and she was suppose to pick them up but she never showed up. He had left to go out of town and he called me and I pick them up. However, I spend time with his daughter because she is friends with my daughter. Lately she hasn't been herself. She has been saying mean things about her mom and I tell her that it's not nice but she say that she doesn't care. Last nighet she told me that she can't wait to see her mom because she haven't seen her in a long time. Should I tell her dad about what she is feeling or should I continue to go on? How do i tell him that he needs to find a mate because his daughter needs a mother? When she comes over she just hugs and kiss me the entire weekend. I find myself worrying about her.

2006-11-05 16:29:30 · 9 answers · asked by NEET29 2

For some reason, I am allowing my therapist to make me feel guilty because I want to leave my emotionally and verbally ausive husband of 12 years. She's telling me that I haven't given it enough time and it's worthwhile. She wants me to have patience with him. He is not taking it seriously and he has already began abusing me again. Last night we were drinking champagne and chillin I asked him a simple question " Is our daughter (she's 6) going to be in his brother's upcoming wedding?". He said that he didn't know . I said that would be a shame cause she's the perfect age etc. He jumped up and flipped out! He said that I am not going to talk about his people and I'm not **** to him and he hopes I drop dead. he said that I'm an ignorant *** ***** who will never be **** and i need to shut the **** up! He proceeded to through the blanket over my face and pick up a pillow as if to smother me. I kept my mouth shut. i fear that he may hurt me. Should I leave before filing 4 divorce?

2006-11-05 16:25:28 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 16:08:13 · 19 answers · asked by fe2bsho 3

my fiancee's mom doesnt want her son 2 marry me. and hes tryin real hard 2 marry me. not she doesnt want her son 2 marry me. should he stand up 2 her and tell her he wants 2 marry me. hes 30 yrs old by the way.

2006-11-05 16:06:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

her court date is tomorrow, she has been in since Friday. I told myself if I won I would bail her out. A friend says NO.. What should I do?

2006-11-05 16:05:33 · 10 answers · asked by Pat R 1

okay see the thing is i was lokin over our cell phone me and my husbands and wehn i was was playin with his fone the other day some one called and that same number was on the cell fone bill several times i asked him who it was and he said i dont know c the thing is how can he not know when hes dialed that number several times should i call the number and ask who it is?

2006-11-05 16:02:31 · 19 answers · asked by mommyof3 3

After being married more than 2 years, I feel that my marriage is different from the 1st year in a good and bad way.
How do you handle the stuff you do not like in the marriage?
Do you look at your marriage the same now as you used to?
Does the heat of love (sex) goes aways in every marriage?

2006-11-05 16:01:45 · 13 answers · asked by southbaybride 2

If man tells a woman that he is married/separated, and she still moves forward with pursuing a relationship with this married man.... will he ever fully respect this new woman?

I don't think so... but what do you guys think?

Especially the men. If you told a woman that you were married/separated.. and she still messed with you, could you ever hold her with the same high esteem you held your wife before marrying her?

2006-11-05 15:50:35 · 19 answers · asked by wondering 4

2006-11-05 15:41:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

its been years since i watched a porn movie. the other day my husband and i rented one. it didnt do a thing for me. is anyone else like me? i was more interested in how long they had been doing it and where was all the lubrication coming from for that woman. these people were doing some serious marathon **&^%^

2006-11-05 15:41:20 · 21 answers · asked by rhonda3826 5

ok i've been married almost 1 year and been with my husband for 2+ yrs and we had got into yhis realy big fight and latter on i ended up telling my ex i had feelings for him, than i tried coving it up . but i don't and never did i think i was doing it to get someones attention because i havent been getting enough from my husband. So he found out ABOUT IT AND IS REALY STRESSED OUT and will never trust me again and i so understand that . I didnt mean it when i told my ex those things i was upset. How can i make things between me and my husband so un awquard?

2006-11-05 15:40:21 · 6 answers · asked by babylove 1

I miss my ex very much. i left him after our baby was born as i was suffering from post partum depression and needed to be with my family for emotional support and he is incapable of this. unfortunately he got more and more upset with my leaving and never apologized for any of his wrong doings to cause my unhappiness. i know it might not work ,but we have a son and i would atleast like to give it one more try. but after being apart for 4 months he has a new girlfriend and does not want to retry. i am frustrated and keep telling myself to move on, but i find it so hard, why? what should i do?? its so hard to be alone with the baby for many reasons including financial. i am attractive and could meet someone else, but its hard to get out and do this.

2006-11-05 15:39:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Happily married for 8 years. Two beautiful daughters, one 5, and one 2. A wife I adore and a well-paying job that I enjoy as a head chef at a localy owned resturaunt. Everything came crashing down at once. My father died of cancer last June, 2 days before my birthday. 3 months later, my wife sends me to court for a divorce, I still can't figure out why she did. In the process of the divorce, I lose my job at the resturaunt, and now I'm giong from small job to job. Because I lost my job, she won custody rights to both of our daughters, and I get them 2 weekends a month. My (ex) wife has moved on, and is seeing another man, but I still love her, and I miss my daughters. Alls I have with me all the time is me golden retriever, Goldie, about the only thing I won from the divorce. I do pay child support, so I am always tight on money. Llook, I'm not the type to kill myself or anything crazy, but what do I have anymore?

2006-11-05 15:38:28 · 11 answers · asked by Don 1

Is forever enough?

I know the answer to this btw.

2006-11-05 15:37:28 · 13 answers · asked by Melissa C 2

2006-11-05 15:35:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-05 15:32:51 · 5 answers · asked by pixie_stix34 2

Okay, my husband has been talking to his ex-girlfriend from 14 years ago. He's has nothing to hide. I'm right there when he talks to her. They have no problems with each other and she seemed to be very nice. Until...........she is now bringing up the past about their relationship and how much she misses him. Should I be concerned. I know my husband will not leave. He has no feelings towards her whatsoever.

2006-11-05 15:32:14 · 19 answers · asked by Barb 2

My mother in law is always telling us we can't afford this or we don't need to buy that.Now she's told my wife she thinks I should get a vasectomy.

2006-11-05 15:25:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does a successful marriage mean to you?

2006-11-05 15:19:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of over 3 yrs,has never once romanced me,except when he was first seeing me,then the day of marriage he completely changed.He has never given me a birthday gift,taken me out for a romantic evening out,or even given me a long and deep kiss on a regular basis.When I confront him about this he says hes not the romantic type and that he feels the only time he needs to spend with me is when we go do our weekly shopping.I am a housewife due to health issues,and I only get to go out on sunday evenings for our weekly grocery shopping,other then that I get taken to the church occassionally,and those are the only places I get to go.I am 26 yrs old and I have been suffering terribly in this marriage due to feeling neglected and unloved,Ive tried everything,getting my own friends,my own hobbies,making myself busy,distracting myself with books and even prayer.He refuses to change and says dont expect this from him ever (meaning expect him to be romantic or give me intimate time.HELP

2006-11-05 15:15:53 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1

I've been with this man for 9yrs, we got married 2yrs ago and have a son... I found out that my marrage was a lie, he's been cheating on me all along. We are separated now and I'm about to file for divorce...but why do I still love him and how can I get over him...?

2006-11-05 15:08:45 · 23 answers · asked by Morena 3

I am planning to leave my husband in 2007. We haven't been getting along since his affair in 2003. Now I am having an affair and the man I am having this affair with is uneasy because I told him that I slept with my husband this weekend. He wanted details....I know I shouldnt be having an affair ..but is it right of my affair mate to be uneasy? Or ask about details??? Dont I have a right to have sex with my husband? YES,..I am sleeping with both.

2006-11-05 15:07:48 · 56 answers · asked by MrsJR 2

Today is his day off he works 4 days a week, 3 off . Its now 8:46 pm and he's been watching movies since 10:am. He does this everyday off. he's either watching movies all day, or on the internet all day and doesnt like any disturbance.He doesnt go anywhere with me and the baby. He doesnt do anything around the house on his days off, just sit there and ask me to cook for him twice a day. He gets so mad if me and the baby goes in the living room playing or making any noice. I get ignored all day everyday and i do everything alone. The only way he interacts with me is sometimes he'll come where im at and grab my boobs, or my butt......but no conversation, no nothing.All sexual...What could this be? Its been like this everysince we've had the baby. Shes almost a year old. I've asked him many times to go to counseling with me but he says we can't afford it. He keeps saying he's leaving when he gets enough money, never happens. I have to beg him to take out the trash.

2006-11-05 15:07:39 · 8 answers · asked by Kristi A 4

last year, I discovered that my husband ( now-ex) was cheating on me. I confronted him and he said that all men do it and it doesn't warrant me to divorce him. I divorced him anyway because he isn't remorseful- he's still sticking by his statement that all men do it.
Is it true- will men cheat if they know they can get away with it?

2006-11-05 15:03:07 · 21 answers · asked by Jacq 1