its been years since i watched a porn movie. the other day my husband and i rented one. it didnt do a thing for me. is anyone else like me? i was more interested in how long they had been doing it and where was all the lubrication coming from for that woman. these people were doing some serious marathon **&^%^
2006-11-05 15:41:20 · 21 answers · asked by rhonda3826 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Porn is a tricky thing. Not all movies are gonna do it for everybody. There has to be a certain something that hits ya. Good for you though, for giving it a try.
2006-11-05 15:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 08:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that much of porn is geared to guys, who want all sex and no story and women doing outlandish acts like the ones described above. And most women find gagging and puking during a bj session not erotic *at* *all*.
But there are different genres of porn out there. "Couples" porn is much less of a ob/gyn inspection-slash-spit on her crotch extreme closeup bangfest and more about 2 people making love.
Everything is less harsh - from the lighting to the bored women shrieking like Maria Sharapova at Wimbledon to the 1/4-inch camera distances so we can see the pimples on someone's butt...
Give it a try some time. It's not nearly as disturbing.
2006-11-05 16:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most of the flicks I've watched, all of that lubrication is coming from their mouths. It's so disgusting.... male or female, when it's time for penetration, one of them spits a big ol' wad of gunk in their hand and uses it for lube. Yuck-o!
In real life all of that lubrication comes out of a bottle or a tube and it is wonderful, incredible stuff. Astroglide is great, but too sweet for my mouth. The new KY "warming" liquids taste bad and dry out quickly, leaving you feeling sticky & irritated. Slippery Kitty [unflavored] is my fave. You nor your hubby will believe how good this feels..
What movies are you watching? Most of the ones we have go through a dozen or so "money shots" before we get there.
As far as getting aroused, you might enjoy the soft-core movies available on HBO, Cinemax, etc... very romantic and sensual, but no actual penetration. If you don't have cable or want a bit more realism, try "Erotique". from Digital Playground. Lush everything with A+ production values.
2006-11-05 16:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by LisaFlorida 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't see what any body sees in seeing people having sex to start with. That is a scared thing that should only be done between a couple (married to each other) that love each other, it is their way of showing their love for each other. People are acting more and more like animals all the time, where they have sex just any place and any time. And with porn, they get paid for it, what in the world is this world coming to any more. I think it is so sad to say the least. Get real, your mate should be enough to turn you on their self with out having any help else where.
2006-11-05 16:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Porn, or movies, can shape the mind of a lover.
yes, they can arouse, but then, they lose their effect.
So, one movie, leads to another, and something deadens.
Once a couple needs more than each other,
they are on a slippery slope
Best not to visualize sexual encounters,
but better to focus on the touch/feel of the real thing.
Men who watch them can focus more on the penis
than on the woman, and get a little twisted.
Porno could protray love between a husband and wife,
nothing kinky, nothing wild, but still the visual takes over.
Watch out for those who need the porn on while loving.
2006-11-05 15:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by dj_of_raleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, well I am a proclaimed self luber and have never needed any of the "out of the bottle stuff" for my husbands marathon s%#. But as far as the porn, women are different. We are all about emotion, touch, feelings etc and men are more SEE/HEAR/TASTE kinda specimens. You should more look at HIM and enjoy his reaction. It can really be cool AND considering you are not on the TV, you get all the benefits!
Silver linings!
2006-11-05 16:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by Barbara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I watched them once in a while while we were dating, then hadn't for a while. We rented one one night and it was the worst thing I have ever seen!! They showed this girl going down on a guy (who was HUGE) for what seemed like an eternity, then he started shoving it down her throat and she choked on it and puked (yes, they showed it). As if that wasn't bad enough, you asked about lube, the guy was going down on her for, again, an eternity, and all of a sudden he backed up and made this horrible noise in his throat and.....ewwww......hocked a loogie right on her crotch!!!!!! NOT SEXY!!! I'm pretty sure porn stars can afford some KY! That's the last one we have watched. Yuck!
2006-11-05 15:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by luvbabysky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rhonda,
I don't get anything out of porn either. Give me a good, erotic plot, not just screwing!
But, my boyfriend and my boy toy both like porn. It turns me on to see how the porn affects them.
2006-11-05 15:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does nothing for my wife as well.
Terribel story.
My brother-in-law wanted me to get porn for him from work, so i took the advise of the rental guy as to title.
The brother wanted to jump start his sex life with his and asked my wife and I to stay to make it less weird.
The vid comes on and they are right into the action. My wife stares at the screen in stunned silence, then comments. "That woman has a terrible yeast infection! Look at all the crud she's leaving behind!"
"Is that the time? We gotta go!"
2006-11-05 15:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋