ok i've been married almost 1 year and been with my husband for 2+ yrs and we had got into yhis realy big fight and latter on i ended up telling my ex i had feelings for him, than i tried coving it up . but i don't and never did i think i was doing it to get someones attention because i havent been getting enough from my husband. So he found out ABOUT IT AND IS REALY STRESSED OUT and will never trust me again and i so understand that . I didnt mean it when i told my ex those things i was upset. How can i make things between me and my husband so un awquard?
2006-11-05 15:40:21 · 6 answers · asked by babylove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need to acknowledge your husbands hurt, and need to know it will be awhile before he can trust u again. show him by your actions you are sorry, by being a person he can trust. learn how to argue, without attacking the other person. it will be strange for awhile, he needs time to think and to get over the hurt, so he won't be himself for awhile.
2006-11-05 15:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you did all the talking, now you pay the price, never to be trusted is not a good plan in a marriage, to bad you didn't think be for you told all
2006-11-06 00:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop all contact with ex and let your husband be the one to end it. It will boost his confidence in you.
2006-11-06 01:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, hon. Your spelling, and command of English is sooooo poor, I can't even figure out what you are asking. Try again, sweetie.
2006-11-05 23:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to talk to him, thats what i have figured out from my marriage, its all abt open communication. Its difficult, and hopefully ur hubby is understanding.
2006-11-05 23:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by danny's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time
2006-11-05 23:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by kyle g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋