Today is his day off he works 4 days a week, 3 off . Its now 8:46 pm and he's been watching movies since 10:am. He does this everyday off. he's either watching movies all day, or on the internet all day and doesnt like any disturbance.He doesnt go anywhere with me and the baby. He doesnt do anything around the house on his days off, just sit there and ask me to cook for him twice a day. He gets so mad if me and the baby goes in the living room playing or making any noice. I get ignored all day everyday and i do everything alone. The only way he interacts with me is sometimes he'll come where im at and grab my boobs, or my butt......but no conversation, no nothing.All sexual...What could this be? Its been like this everysince we've had the baby. Shes almost a year old. I've asked him many times to go to counseling with me but he says we can't afford it. He keeps saying he's leaving when he gets enough money, never happens. I have to beg him to take out the trash.
2006-11-05 15:07:39 · 8 answers · asked by Kristi A 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nikki how do you kick him out, i mean how do you go about it? First marriage, never divorced.
2006-11-05 15:17:54 · update #1
Sounds like your husband is a real jerk. If it were me, I would go down to the court house and file for a divorce. Who needs that worthless piece of crap around and if you're afraid of raising your baby alone, you are already doing that. Babies make noises. they're babies. Get rid of him. You don't need him. He doesn't even respect you.
2006-11-05 15:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by youngpoet_33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some men are jealous of the baby, because of course you need to give more attention to the baby than to him, but it seems to me that youre man is not sweet, is egotistic, selfish, i dont know what made you love him, youre not a superwoman you know you can always get out of that situation i know it would be hard but if you have a family to go to then go to them, you dont have to take this from him, sooner or later he would be having an affair, he does not seem to be comfortable with the idea of responsibility and building a family with you, tell him what you feel but tell this when you are with someone else like a friend for support, or a nearby counselor who knows your problem, tell him this, devise a way so that both of you can talk together in a very calm place, serene surrounding,, tell him exactly that you feel that he is just using you, and that you dont feel loved, and if this does not change you would no longer want to be with him, stand up for yourself you are a strong woman , you can do this without him someone will love you and your baby, it does not necessarily mean that it should be this man,you have suffered long enough wake up dont let him treat you like this, you deserve better, the road ahead of you would be hard and would be full of challenges , but you can do it,...leave him
2006-11-05 15:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has executed all of it i assume. Now what's his objective? consistent with hazard he sounds like as long as he is going to artwork and could pay the charges he has met his responsibilities. I advise, that's obvious that he's taking you with none attention. yet why? It sounds to me like he merely isn't waiting to be the previous married couple with young ones. And if he would not have the rest to seem forward to, a minimum of he has a sturdy action picture and a few intercourse each and every now and then. you should furnish him extra household projects around the homestead and with the new child. while he realizes that he's mandatory and has a larger objective he would savour existence slightly extra. And while the home is wiped sparkling swifter, there is extra time to play :)
2016-12-10 03:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a self-centered piece of ****. He only interacts with you when he wants sex. Other than that you and the baby should act like furniture. Sounds like you and the baby would be better off without him. Best of luck.
2006-11-05 15:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beg him, don't plead with him, talking nice hasn't worked. Now you need to KICK HIS @SS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He is getting away with exactly what he's doing because you let him get away with it. Mrs. Nice Guy is gone - now you need to go commando on his @ss and get him up and moving. He will balk and fight and maybe be rude - don't let ANYTHING deter you in your mission. He needs this - I can sense it. Some guys react better to a drill seargent than to a pleasant wife. Get his butt in gear and get him back in the game. It could be just what you both needed!!
And if it doesn't work, then you've tried everything you could and can freely kick him out. Get your lawyer ready on speed dial just in case....
2006-11-05 15:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to the lawyer and ask him to prepare the divorce papers.
2006-11-06 03:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it is very important to stand out to your principle.better let him know now that it is annoying you.that be that way the rest of your life.Not all arguments ends up terribly.If he understand ,then well and good,but if not,still point out what you think is right.gud luck.
2006-11-05 15:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by gabsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of relationship is that? I suggest divorce. Yikes. Run far, run fast.
2006-11-05 15:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋