okay, i was playing with my husbands cell phone today and i saw soemone callnig in i asked him about it and he said he didnt know so i text messaged the number and asked who it was and todl them i was him well the person said they were jose his best friend which is a guy ok so why would he say he dont know his best friends phone number?? this person wanted to know who i was before they would answer me........also he has been hangnig out over there more and more lately gettin off work at 1215 and gettin home between 1230-130 wat is he doing?? so see i am just wondering wat i should do now also the phone number is a cell
2006-11-05 16:54:00 · 10 answers · asked by mommyof3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry for any misspellings
2006-11-05 16:56:07 · update #1
i think as a women, you will eventually find out we always do!! At the right time and right place your body will tell you what to do almost as if it says hey"call this number" or hey go here....but i agree with the first answer go over there. If you only have one car find a ride. Chances are he's not at his friends house like he says he is. I feel bad for you.theres nothing worse than a housewife sitting at home wondering who,why, what, when, and where. Pray to God ask him to help you.
2006-11-05 17:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kristi A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with you on what is going on here. I do know what my best friends number is and I also had the same problem with my boyfriend on his cell phone as well. It was not guys calling him, it was females calling him. How long does it take for you husband to normally get home from work? As far as the cell phone goes, you were not snooping on his phone. If he has a problem with you seeing his calls or anything about his phone, that is a red flag right there! If it was his best friend that called him, then why would he want to know who you was first? His best friend would know you already. I could help you out with this problem I think as I have the same problem going on here myself. But I will need more info about what all is happening. I could probably tell you with more info IF he is in fact cheating on you. If you want, you can email me and I will help you out. We could find out if he is cheat on you with some simple questions, been there done that, I know what I am talking about. Email me.
2006-11-05 17:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't playing with his cell, you were snooping - own it girl!
If he gets off at 12:15 and comes home by 12:30 no big deal. But later, tell him you want him to come straight home from work - that is reasonable.
And guys? Once they put a number in the cell phone address book and use it to dial - they really do forget the person's number. They get used to pressing a key or two and that is it.
If you suspect he is cheating from 12:15 to 1:30 - you need to ask him about it.
2006-11-05 16:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you suspect something is going on that isnt right. You can look up a cell phone on the internet on a reverse lookup and see who it is registered to.
Also, ask your husband what he is doing. If he denies any wrong doing, ask if you could hang out over there as well. If he says no--show up one day, as suggested.
Good luck!
2006-11-05 17:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by little1missy1234 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes here is what I think... I think your husband is doing drugs. Don't ask how I know, I just have a feeling. You will know if he is, just look for certain behaivor changes, and missing money etc. Good luck. And when you find out that I am right, make mine the best answer. I need the points... thanks
2006-11-05 16:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
from experience, leave it alone. if your husband is cheating, it will come to the light. right now, you have to be strong and hold off. i know you would want to know but once you do know, you will feel so very hurt. just try and trust him as you always did until you get hard evidence. dont look for trouble
2006-11-05 17:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Amenah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Heck I don't know my best friends number - thats why I have all their names programmed into the phone. So he has a friend...why don't you get one and a life while you are at it.
2006-11-05 16:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by obenypopstar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
His excuse is bogus.....Sounds to me like he's protecting corporation of this different female. you need to discover out. you will possibly be able to ought to borrow a sturdy friends vehicle or you and the chum stick to him to work out the place he is going while he starts off heading out. yet you need to discover out who this different female is, and why he bought her a telephone? i think of he's cheating.
2016-11-27 21:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by bacca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the number and don't say a word let them speak first and you will know if its his best friend or not.
2006-11-05 17:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only one way to know for sure exactly what he's doing over there...go over there yourself and surprise him. You are going to drive yourself crazy until you know for sure.
2006-11-05 16:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋