my fiancee's mom doesnt want her son 2 marry me. and hes tryin real hard 2 marry me. not she doesnt want her son 2 marry me. should he stand up 2 her and tell her he wants 2 marry me. hes 30 yrs old by the way.
2006-11-05 16:06:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
in his heart he does wanna marry me. his mom just controls his life and hes really tryin hard 2 stand up 2 her
2006-11-05 16:18:17 · update #1
Yes...of course he should stand up to her. If he is not willing to do whatever it takes to be with you....then find someone who is!
2006-11-05 16:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by melissa6119 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you did not state the reasons your fiancee's mother does not want the two of you to marry. Maybe she knows something he does not know...He is old enough to make his own decisions being 30. Some mothers think no girl is good enough for their son. You should talk with her and have him with you when you have this talk. This way he will hear both of you. This way you can discuss her concerns and try to change her mind. If she knows something about you that is not good then maybe you should bring out in the open and talk about it....Mother n laws never leave the picture once you are married....
2006-11-05 16:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her why. She must have a reason and she needs to let it be known!
I'm sure she already told her son, so ask him.
Most moms don't want there sons to marry a whore, and they get that impression by the way the woman dresses.
It's not right, but it is the way of man.
So what's in your closet?
keep shinin'
jerm ;)
2006-11-05 16:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by grayz4sure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let mommy's boy stay with his mommy. He's 30 years old and doesn't stand up to his mommy, and you must face the reality that he never will. Find a real man to marry.
2006-11-05 20:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by Das 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are kidding..
He is 30 and afraid to marry you because of his mother ?..
Do not marry him..
You need a real man..
Let him & his mommy stick together...
2006-11-05 16:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man needs to cut the apron strings. He sounds like such a mama's boy. It's his life and not his mom's. She could ruin his life like that. If he listens to her, chances are he'll regret it later. Mom's have a tendency to be over protective.
2006-11-05 16:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by *Kacie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like his mother will always be in your life, if he lets her. what u see right now is just a preview of what your marriage will be like if u marry this mama's boy. she will constantly be in your marriage and in your business, and it's odvious she doesn't like u. get away from these people fast as u can.
2006-11-05 16:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can marry me and She will like me Or (?)
2006-11-05 16:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by Boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask a question like this, he is not a suitable marriage prospect. Leave him alone.
2006-11-05 16:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess if you really love her you should tell her mom
2006-11-05 16:08:50 · answer #10 · answered by betsywilcox_40371 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋