is it worth having kids.....or just forget about it if your still having fun and immature when your 32?

Answer 1

No................ it's not ..........don't do it or you'll join the many many parents who say "God I wish I never had children"
Grow old with no worries and spend all your money on yourself.

Answer 2

That just really depends on if you really & truly want kids. If you really want kids you have to get mature. That doesn't mean you can't have fun it's just limited. I don't believe in people having kids if they don't want to take care of them. I will praise you for asking this question b/c a lot of people that are this age are immature they have a kid or two and then the parents are in the bar every night and that is not how a child should treated Having a child changes everything you still can go out and fun but in a whole new way that is exciting: a whole new adventaure!
I hope things work out for you!

Answer 3

Being FUN and IMMATURE is even MORE fun when you have kids! I guess it depends on what kind of immature you mean, but when you have children NO ONE can tell you how it will change your life. I know, I know, you hear the horror stories too, but seriously, they are such a wonderful impact.

It's a personal choice. You can always enjoy other friends kids and continue any crazy lifestyle you want. But you will never have that experience of a tiny breath on your chest and looking in the rear view mirrow at your own eyes.

Amazing......kids are little pieces of your heart that dance outside your body.

Answer 4

At 32 yous should have had the babies if you really want to have a good parenting. Take it this way at 32, your first born will be completing High school when you are 49, and the university when you are probably 55 and about to call it a day...

have them when you ahve the strength

Answer 5

Just from the way you phrased your question, you do not seem like you are in the right place in your life to have children at all. And you may never be, but that's okay too. It should ideally come when the time is right if at all, it is a huge responsibility. Too many people have children before they are ready, and our society is paying for in many ways. You really need to discuss this thoroughly with your significant other if you have one!

Answer 6

Men can put if off at 32 and wait for a few years...
Women should start having kids in their 20's....

Answer 7

It takes a real man to settle down and be mature enough to handle being a father. You are only 32 and you haven't grown to be a real man yet. So leave the children where they at and grow the hell up oh! i for got a man don't grow up until they hit mid life crisis.

Answer 8

It's worth having kids if you want them. But don't have them if you're not sure whether you're ready or not.
Have them because YOU want them....not because everybody else has one/some. Not everyone was meant to have children and life can still be enjoyable if you choose not to have any.
I know. I chose to remain childless and life is still good :)

Answer 9

Forget about it. If you're not ready, don't do it......it'll make you, the kids, and their mother miserable if you're not ready to be a dad (notice I didn't use the word "father"). Some people just aren't meant to be parents...but be careful....realizing that you're one of those people and making the decision not to have kids until you're ready is a very RESPONSIBLE (i.e, mature) thing to do...

Answer 10

If you aren't mature at 32, you don't need kids
because kids don't need immature parents.
Your attitude sounds both immature and selfish.
Why not just GROW UP?

Answer 11

Forget about it, having too much fun to be a parent.