If man tells a woman that he is married/separated, and she still moves forward?

Question

If man tells a woman that he is married/separated, and she still moves forward with pursuing a relationship with this married man.... will he ever fully respect this new woman?

I don't think so... but what do you guys think?

Especially the men. If you told a woman that you were married/separated.. and she still messed with you, could you ever hold her with the same high esteem you held your wife before marrying her?

Answer 1

Wow, a good question, with only my esteem and somewhat shame to uphold.

Here goes.

I loved "that guy" once. And though I would have given him anything under the sun, including honesty, manogomy and love....in my deep caring for him I also had to give him space. I had to honor his present situation(as hard as that was) and told him I didn't intend on being "the other woman" only to one realize I WAS. I respected what ever he wanted and only wanted him to be happy.

I then stopped talking to him, and put on my Captain Avoido outfit and a woderful thing happened. He figured his life out, honestly with out any obstacles and called me about a year later and asked for a date. Go figure. It was ONLY then that he could hold me with esteem that he once carried for his previous love.

There should be no pressure............if she really cares.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I'm not really sure as to what you are asking here, but I'm going to take a stab in the dark here.

Are you asking that if a man was seeing a woman and he was married only separated at the time and he more or less told the woman that he was seeing to hit the road and she continued to go after him, if he should lose respect for her?

Well for one thing, I think just because someone is separated from their mate does not give them the right to see other people yet, they are just separated not divorced. All the separation means is they are having some problems and trying to work out the problems. Neither of them should see any body else during that time. You want to see other people...get a divorce FIRST.

He must have been treating the other woman very good for her to want more from him, which what he should have been doing is spending that time trying to work things out with his spouse instead of playing with another woman.

This applies to both women and men that are married. Do not go out and see other people until you are divorced.

If either of the two steps out to see any one else while still married even if they are separated at the time, they are cheating on the other one.

Answer 4

The bitter truth nobody can ever take the spot of your first. That is a fact of life.

Most women are tired of being lied to and when a man comes up frankly that you are separated, you easily become a target because you are available and they want to give the comfort, genuine or otherwise.

Real men are in short supply, but there are a few good men still there.

That is where you are, it;s not that you are just been sexed, it's genuine ;)

Answer 5

I think so. It depends on where he stands with his seperation. I am in the same boat he is being seperated myself. No woman yet, but I can tell you that if it is over between him and his wife then there should be no problem. There are some states like mine that make you stay seperated for a period of time before they allow a divorce to go through.

Answer 6

Yes, if I was really separated and in the process of getting a divorce....I would not feel like I was an adulterer and I would not
think badly of her for messing with a married man...
Though in reality....You are married until the final divorce decree.

Answer 7

I don't see how he can trust her when she's willing to have a relationship with man who is legally married to another woman. Bottom line, married and separated both equal married.

Answer 8

If he accepts her advances he is interested. If they love each other they can respect each other. I'm separated and I respect men that advance me even knowing that I am legally married. Being separated and staying separated means that one no longer wants to be with the spouse.

Answer 9

Depends on the guy and what he is like,and what is he looking for. Most women will back off if a man is married unless given clues he's looking for something else.

Answer 10

NO! He's never going to respect her! He's MARRIED and she's not respectigt hefact he's still married a seperated man coudls till get back with his wife and she needs to find someone single! he's nto the only man ont he planet. probably in her ocale, but she needs to place an ad on the net. nto try to net this man!