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Well my friend ( we aren't in a relationship) and his wife got a divorce two years ago. However, I never talked with him about what happend. Now he has custody of his two children and his step daughter. During this past summer he took the kids to practice and she was suppose to pick them up but she never showed up. He had left to go out of town and he called me and I pick them up. However, I spend time with his daughter because she is friends with my daughter. Lately she hasn't been herself. She has been saying mean things about her mom and I tell her that it's not nice but she say that she doesn't care. Last nighet she told me that she can't wait to see her mom because she haven't seen her in a long time. Should I tell her dad about what she is feeling or should I continue to go on? How do i tell him that he needs to find a mate because his daughter needs a mother? When she comes over she just hugs and kiss me the entire weekend. I find myself worrying about her.

2006-11-05 16:29:30 · 9 answers · asked by NEET29 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

9 answers

be a mentor for her.I am glad she has u!
She could be worse of if she had nobody!
good bless you

2006-11-05 16:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

U may speak with her dad about his daughter. He has the right to know what's going on as she is his responsibility. In the meantime, continue to be a good friend to her. She sounds like she needs some kind of guidance.

2006-11-06 00:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0 0

He may be at fault for the change in his daughter. She may be acting off of emotions she has picked up from him. Or she could be acting on things she has heard him say. She does not need a new mother, she needs to know that it is okay to love the one she already has.

2006-11-06 00:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why do you necessarily think that you should tell him the he needs to find a mate? Maybe his daughter just needs to spend more time with her mother. Maybe that is what you should be discussing with him (if you feel the need).

2006-11-06 00:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0 0

you should first talk to your friend. If he cant understand, you should just spend more time with his daughter so she could kind of understand life from a woman's view, you know?

2006-11-06 00:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by retardedlady 2 · 1 0

i would talk to him tell him your concerns if he cares at all he will listen to what you have to say and if he love shis daughter he may take that into considerationg good luck just be careful how u word things

2006-11-06 00:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by mommyof3 3 · 0 0

It is good she has you to talk to- it sounds like you care- someone else may not care as much- it is normal for her to miss her mom - even if she wasn't the greatest- Her dad may or may not understand - so proceed w caution- you don't want him mad at her- D

2006-11-06 00:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1 0

talk to him about what going on with her but also b there for her you sound like your a great person and a great mom keep up the good work

2006-11-06 00:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by Jeannie T 3 · 0 0

I think you should tell your friend as she is his daughter, he should be the one to worry about her, of course, she is lucky to have you. but his is her father...

2006-11-06 08:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2 · 0 0

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