After being married more than 2 years, I feel that my marriage is different from the 1st year in a good and bad way.
How do you handle the stuff you do not like in the marriage?
Do you look at your marriage the same now as you used to?
Does the heat of love (sex) goes aways in every marriage?
2006-11-05 16:01:45 · 13 answers · asked by southbaybride 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, I've been there. For me, after the honeymoon was over, the adjustment period came after. We had more arguments during the second year and things that didn't use to annoy me about him became magnified. As far as sex is concerned, it has decreased somewhat but not entirely.
Most likely you are just going through some adjustment period but what you both do during that period is what's going to make or break your marriage.
2006-11-05 16:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Leila G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you TRULY love your spouse those feelings just don't die. It is up to the two to constantly reinvent new ways of looking at your marriage. You can ALWAYS look at the same ol thing and find the NEW in it. I can assure you that if you two always look forward to the new within the familiar you will NEVER get tired or take eachother for granted. Good Luck!
p/s forget what you've heard about marriage getting boring. You are you so take advantage of your life in the best way possible.
Ciao!
2006-11-06 01:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Sweetheart,
The best advice I can give you,is to try and woo your wife! Romance her, and ask her out on dates! Bring her flowers the whole thing! Not just on holidays, but everyday, do something thoughtful,special, and really go all out on holidays! Women like the little and big things in life! You married for good or bad, now turn the bad into glad !!!!! GOOD LUCK !
2006-11-06 00:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lilac_lady 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one is perfect. You need to overlook your partner's quirks if they are not really important. In most successful marriages the heat of love (sex) never dies. Age and infirmity may slow it down and change it, but never destroys it.
2006-11-06 00:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel tht after d initial euphoria of marriage, comes d time to settle into d relation....i dont think d intensity if d initial days can last forever...it becomes stable...we mature in d relation......passion and sex, well we have to keep d flame alive, ..innovate....after apoint marriage becomes all about understanding...and friendship.....
2006-11-06 00:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by danny's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only after two years and you are asking this. If you feel like this, you better talk to him quick. Either you or him have problems.
2006-11-06 00:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by I'm In Love With Delicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you married the right person, the honeymoon will never be over till one of you is dead.
2006-11-06 00:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by Big mama 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Married couples tell me it goes in cycles.
2006-11-06 00:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by stick man 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some of that seems normal.. thats why I'm not rushing down the isle..
2006-11-06 00:03:58 · answer #9 · answered by tana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can anyone be more naive than Big Mama? Wow.
2006-11-06 00:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋