2006-11-05 00:14:06 · 42 answers · asked by sweet shaan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sweet shaan, hi!
how i wish that all love marriages would last forever! however, the fact is that ANY relationship between 2 people cannot be guaranteed... that's a fact.
that's because people are inherently different. each person has his/her own dream, desire, moods, loves, wants and needs... even between ordinary friends, or the best buddies, misunderstands can develop... then why not between a married couple?
the way to make a relationship work is to let go... you have to sacrifice some of your dreams and wishes to make love or friendship work... but beyond a certain point, you may not want to keep sacrificing.
that's life... and that's how people are.
but don't worry... as long as both of put a lot if effort into your love, you can make it work... but only if you really want it to...
hope this helped...
enjoy!
2006-11-05 00:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by bangaloresizzler 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are no guarantees with any kind of marriage. Marriage takes hard work and commitment. Love is a good base, but love isn't everything and doesn't always last. A marriage is a partnership and both people have to put in a lot to get out a lot. The partners should be similar in background, education, financial status. In other words, love does not conquer all and marriage is not a fairytale. What your mother said was true. There's a reason that movies end with the people get together. If Leonardo and Kate made it off the Titanic together, they would have ended up divorced when she had to eat rat for dinner or changed her mind about him when she grew up past being 17 years old. Choose your partner wisely.
2006-11-05 00:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by yessiamcute 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We can not generalise. Sum love marriages are successful and some are not. The problem with love marriages is that the partners in the courting phase do not know what exactly they are looking for. When reality dawns after marriage after living together for some time, it is becomes too late. Then starts the act of diverse and all other complications. It is much worse if the couple have children. Some marriages succeed because of the fact that both partners have cultural upbringing suitable to each other and they learn to cooperate with each other.
2006-11-05 01:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, love marriages are not always sucessful. Because marriage becomes successful only when the married couple understands each other and proceeds with their married life.
2006-11-05 15:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by devulapalli a 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no ways if u survey then u will find that 1 who has love marriage are more divorced and even they fight a lot as before love marrige both the partners will do anything for each other and after marriage they are taken as granted and then the fight starts like 1st u would come to meet me any time i call u and now no time and all those rubbish stuff...so u r wrong but yes love marriage succeeed too .
2006-11-06 03:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by simran 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not in all cases, but if the chemistry is right and there is a good sense of communication and understanding there can be.
Love and marriage is a two way street and must always be worked at every single day.
2006-11-05 00:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by 4mika 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
theres a fallacy in the statement. love marriages are not *always* a success. it needs effort to stay the way it is like in the early marriage when u both still very much in love with each other.
but the same way applies to arrange marriages. not all are doomed to fail. my parents marry because of family arrangements and they love each other dearly!
marriages need work and effort (and sometimes money) to work it out. be it arranged or love marriage, u have to put some effort it in.
2006-11-05 00:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by miza n 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love marriage or arranged marriage all is the same. You have to look after the interest of your partner or the marriage will fail
2006-11-05 05:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
not really
but if compared to arranged marriages love marriages r less sucessful
2006-11-05 03:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dear, success rate of any marriage depends on both partners be it be love or arranged. but its always better to go for love-cumarranged marriages as in that case you know the other person . you know the negative qualities of each other and you have a way to deal with them . life becomes much easier if your partner is loving and understanding. cheerios ! enjoy your love life!
2006-11-05 01:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by whatever 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋